The importance of breastfeeding children for growth and survival is emphasized in Islam, with personal and political events including a woman who committed a sinful act. The speakers emphasize the need for practicing Islam and avoiding mistakes, creating a happy environment, protecting children from mistakes, and avoiding harm. They also discuss the importance of consulting the head of the family and the father in order to collectively share their opinions, and emphasize the need for witnesses to verify evidence and education in upbringing children. The conversation ends with a discussion of writing a thesis and avoiding financial and moral support, having a good father and mother.
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We have enjoined upon the human to treat
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his parents kindly, love your parents, respect your
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parents, honour them.
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When Allah wants us to do something, he
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does not just order us to do something
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without a purpose.
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Why?
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Why we must honour, respect our parents.
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Number one, Allah is telling us, number one
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the mother, his mother, our mother bore us
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with hardship.
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It is not easy for the mother to
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go through the pain when they are pregnant,
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when we are starting to grow inside our
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mother's womb.
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There is a lot of pain, difficulty, suffering,
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but the mother never gave up until she
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delivered the baby.
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Delivering a baby also you have to be
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very strong.
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What is inside now is coming out.
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It is not easy.
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And that is why one of the signs
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of a people who die as a shaheed,
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a shaheeda, is if a woman die while
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delivering her baby.
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She die as a shaheeda.
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It is a jihad.
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And that is why sometimes when a doctor
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who specializes in this area found there is
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a lot of complication for the mother to
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deliver this baby.
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It may cost her life.
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Then doctor normally will advise to abort the
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baby.
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They will want the mother to terminate the
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life of the baby.
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While the baby is inside her womb.
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Just to save the life of the mother.
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Because saving the life of the mother is
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more important than the life of the newborn.
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It is not easy.
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But normally a mother will be ready to
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do what is the best for the baby.
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They just don't think of themselves more.
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I am ready.
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Just do it.
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Alhamdulillah sometimes it works.
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Sometimes like what Allah said.
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وَيُخْيِي وَيُمِتْ Allah is the one who give
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life and he is the one who take
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life.
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And there are time when a woman give
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birth to the baby, the baby stay alive.
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Same time the mother return back to Allah.
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And that is why Allah did ask us.
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كيف تغفرون بالله How can you disobey Allah,
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go against Allah?
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Before you are not here, I give you
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the life.
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كنتم أمواتا فأحياكم ثم يميتكم ثم يحييكم ثم
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إليه ترجعون You were not here.
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I ordain, I allow you to be here.
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I give you the life.
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But again you are going to experience death.
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You are not going to live forever.
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Sooner or later you will also have to
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die.
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And that death is not like the first
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one.
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That death is for you to prepare yourself
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to be alive again in the next life.
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In akhirah.
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ثم يحييكم ثم إليه ترجعون You are going
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to come back to me, you are going
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to come back to me.
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Not as a dead person, Allah will give
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you life again.
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But that world is a very different world.
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It is not a world of action.
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No more amal.
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You don't pray, you don't fast, nothing.
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There is a day of judgment.
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If you pass the exam, Allah will be
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very pleased with you.
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And He will reward you with paradise.
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Paradise.
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And when you go to paradise, you just
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ask anything you want, you get it.
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That is the beauty of paradise.
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Anything you want, Allah prepares for you.
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But nothing in paradise that you enjoy that
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will cause harm to you.
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Everything that you eat, you do, will make
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you happy, healthy and everlasting.
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But the world here is full of challenges.
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You must be strong to survive.
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Physically, you must be active.
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Mentally, you must be ready not to let
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any kind of thing corrupt your mind.
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You are in control.
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With the thing that Allah has given you,
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don't let anything control you.
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Like the gadget today is controlling a lot
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of our children.
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It is like they cannot live and pass
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a day without going through their handphone.
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They just can't.
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They are so weak that they lack this
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small gadget to control them.
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You can talk to them, but they are
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not there to listen anymore.
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It is a challenge.
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You must know how to be in control.
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Remember, the mother has gone through a lot
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of pain, difficulty, hardship.
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But the mother never gives up.
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After we are born, there is the beginning
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of our new life.
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And there is the beginning of the extra
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responsibility the father and the mother have.
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Now, she is not just a wife and
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the man is not just a husband.
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Their status has been upgraded to the mother
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status and father.
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Young children should understand this so that when
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they become father, they become the best father.
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When they become mother, they become the best
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mommy.
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But if you don't prepare yourself, then you
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may face another kind of challenges.
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Now your life is not just you and
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your partner.
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You have an extra family.
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Now let us focus on today's topic, the
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importance of breastfeeding in Islam.
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Islam emphasizes the importance of breastfeeding in many
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ways.
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In what follows, we highlight just a few
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of them.
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Number one in Islam, breastfeeding is an obligation,
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not a sunnah.
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It is not an option, but it is
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an obligation.
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The baby is from you and the best
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provision of food is from you.
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Because through breastfeeding, meaning all the food that
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you consume has gone through a filter, a
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kind of process that Allah ordained without a
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third party involved, not from the factory, it
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is from you, directly from you, to produce
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the best food, the best nutrition for the
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baby.
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The mother provides the milk and the father
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provides the material support.
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It is where the family starts to come
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in.
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It is not a one person responsibility.
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That is why Allah says, وَالْمُؤْمِنُونُ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ بَعْدُهُمْ
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أَوْلِيَا أُوبَعٍ In Surah Al-Ahzab, a believing
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male and a believing female, husband or wife,
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they always complement, support, help one another.
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To be a father, you are not just
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a man, you are not just a husband
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now, your status has been upgraded.
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Any upgrading in life is also followed with
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responsibility.
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Alhamdulillah, when you become a good father, because
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you know that you have to make sure
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that the baby grows strong, healthy, have enough
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food, but you cannot produce the food for
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the baby.
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The baby cannot consume any hard food, and
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the best one is the mother's milk.
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So what is the support that the husband
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must give, the father must do?
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Make sure that the mother who is breastfeeding
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the baby has peace, healthy, so you have
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to work harder to provide healthy food, healthy
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environment.
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Because if there is a lot of pressure,
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a lot of tension develops, then the wife
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has no peace, and she cannot focus.
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And all the good women will be having
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a lot of problems, it's changing.
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You can see in life, if you are
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a positive person, you can sleep very easily.
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No problem, less problem, less stress, so you
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can sleep.
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And you can be active and doing work
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without being pressured, because at that time the
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mother, physically she is weak, you should not
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burden her with extra work.
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All the work that she normally do when
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she was with us, it stands for the
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father of the child to play his role.
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That's how the father comes in.
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Make sure the mother has enough rest, because
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it is not easy.
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Breastfeeding baby, she does not know whether you
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are sleepy, whether you are hungry, the time
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that she wants, the baby wants, they just
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have to cry.
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How can you know that the baby needs
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some food?
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The baby cannot talk, Mama, I'm hungry, I'm
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thirsty, she can't.
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The baby just cries.
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When baby don't cry, we also are worried
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what is happening to the baby.
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When the baby cries, it's a sign that
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the baby is communicating with us, telling us,
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I'm hungry.
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So sometimes we are so tired, we are
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going to sleep and the baby is crying.
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What can the papa do?
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The papa only can carry the baby.
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Sleep, sleep, the baby cannot sleep.
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The baby just wants food.
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And that's why the new technology, we have
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all these feeding models on them.
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They prepared it and then they can just
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feed the baby through the feeding from the
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bottle.
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But Allah loves us more if you are
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ready to breastfeed the baby directly.
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Bring the baby close to your body.
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So the baby sometimes, when the mother holds
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the baby, the baby feels secure.
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Because the baby senses the smell of the
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mother.
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There is a very close connection.
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And if a stranger holds the baby, the
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baby cries.
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The baby can't know who is this guy
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who is holding me.
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The baby senses the smell.
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They are very sensitive.
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They know who is carrying them.
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Allahu Akbar.
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Because Allah gives us all these senses.
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So it's a learning process.
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Why is the baby still crying?
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There is a reason for everything.
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So it is a very important situation for
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the father to be ready to respond to
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the need of the mother.
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So that the mother will have all the
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good positive energy to breastfeed the baby.
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When the baby is healthy, strong, who profits?
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We all will have the profit together.
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Who benefits?
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We benefit.
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Brothers and sisters, Islam also partially gives to
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the relationship resulting from breastfeeding a status similar
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to that of blood relationships.
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Aisha ibn Abbas and Ali r.a reported
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that the Prophet said Indeed
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Allah has prohibited marriage among suckling relatives.
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As he has prohibited it among birth or
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blood relatives.
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And this is a very important issue where
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a lot of people who are involved in
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breastfeeding who like to breastfeed other children but
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they are not careful in recording who are
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the child that they have breastfed.
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It is very important.
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It is good sometimes to extend the family
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relationship that our children do not just have
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one sibling but now they have extra extended
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siblings through the breastfeeding relationship.
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But whoever wants to exercise this kind of
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breastfeeding please make sure that you record it
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properly.
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Write it down today and let the family
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members know.
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Don't do it too secretly, too privately.
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You want to hide from people because it
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may cause another problem.
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We are not here to make the life
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of our children confused, complicated in the future.
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We are here to coach them, to guide
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them to make sure that they will grow
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healthy faithfully, obediently become righteous children who will
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only do what is halal, not what is
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haram.
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Remember the Prophet said Allah has prohibited marriage
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among suckling relatives as he has prohibited it
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among birth or blood relatives.
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A married man or woman who commits adultery
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deserves the capital punishment of stoning to death.
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For a married woman, however, she is allowed
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time to breastfeed her baby or find someone
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to breastfeed it before she is being punished
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to show us how bad is that kind
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of relationship.
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To the extent that the punishment is death.
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Three kinds of punishment that can cause death.
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Allah said in the Quran, in Surah Isra'
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وَلَا تَقْتُلُ النَّفْسَ الَّذِي حَرَّمَ اللَّهِ إِلَّا بِالْحَقِّ
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You are not supposed to kill any life
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any human except what is allowed.
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You can kill a person when the person
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is found guilty as a killer who killed
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somebody.
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Then the death penalty is given to the
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next of kin, the family.
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You can ask for a life, for a
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life.
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Or you can forgive and call them to
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pay compensation money.
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Or you can just forgive without any payment,
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your choice.
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And this right was given to the family.
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Not the king, not the prime minister, not
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the emperor.
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Because this child, the son or the daughter
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belong to us.
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Allah honor everybody's right.
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The law have to exercise what they have
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to do to confirm whether he or she
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is guilty or not.
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One confirm without doubt, he is the cause
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00:30:28
of the death of this person, she is
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the one, then the court must summon the
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next of kin.
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If the father is alive, the family member
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ask the next of kin, what do you
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00:30:43
want us to do to this murderer?
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00:30:48
If he said, we forgive, Alhamdulillah.
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00:30:54
It happened in the state a few years
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00:30:54
ago.
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00:31:00
A black guy killed one of the Muslim
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00:31:09
teenagers and the court is going to pass
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00:31:10
the verdict.
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00:31:14
And the father of the child, the son
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00:31:16
was dead, the one who was killed.
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00:31:22
And the judge asked him and he stand
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00:31:25
up and said, we forgive you.
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00:31:31
That is the first time that court experienced
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00:31:33
that kind of motion.
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00:31:36
Normally we were upset.
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00:31:41
We want some severe capital punishment.
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00:31:45
But he said, I felt, I was in
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00:31:47
contact also with that man.
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00:31:48
A few months ago.
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00:31:51
Because of something else.
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00:31:59
When he showed that kind of mercy, because
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00:32:05
Islam allowed, the judge had to come down
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00:32:09
and even approach the father.
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00:32:13
The judge said, I never come across this
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00:32:14
kind of people.
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00:32:17
People very mean or let the court decide.
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00:32:19
No.
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00:32:23
The father has all the right to make
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00:32:23
a decision.
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00:32:28
To show us how does Allah honor basic
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00:32:29
human right.
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00:32:31
Not the government have right.
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00:32:35
The government have the right to just do
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00:32:35
their work.
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00:32:39
Check whether this is the murderer.
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00:32:40
Confirm.
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00:32:40
Confirm.
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00:32:47
Then judgment must go back to the family
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00:32:49
of the dead man.
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00:32:50
Allahu Akbar.
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00:32:52
Who do this today?
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00:32:59
Even the Sharia court today, don't exercise that.
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00:33:01
Very strange.
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00:33:04
You have no right.
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00:33:05
The court have no right.
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00:33:07
The judge have no right.
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00:33:10
He just have to ask and seek the
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00:33:11
right from the Wali.
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00:33:13
Who are the Wali?
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00:33:16
Who are the Sultan?
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00:33:19
Wajahanna Waliyu Sultan.
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00:33:23
I make the Wali of the person.
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00:33:26
That mean the father.
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00:33:29
The family members.
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00:33:33
Because the father have gone through all the
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00:33:38
pain, suffering to bring up his children.
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00:33:42
You must seek their permission.
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00:33:42
No.
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00:33:45
2 is the person who become Muslim.
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00:33:52
And later on they choose to leave the
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00:33:52
deen.
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00:33:55
He also must be judged.
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00:33:57
For what reason?
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00:34:00
Is there any pressure from anybody forcing him
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00:34:01
to leave?
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00:34:03
He don't feel secure.
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00:34:06
People who is coming after his life.
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00:34:09
You must give maximum protection.
00:34:10 -->
00:34:15
But if he do it privately without knowing.
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00:34:16
Nobody know.
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00:34:18
It's between he and Allah.
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00:34:21
But if he dare to come openly and
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00:34:22
challenge.
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00:34:24
I am leaving this religion.
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00:34:32
Then the law of capital punishment can come
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00:34:32
out.
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00:34:37
He can be terminated because of that.
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00:34:40
You are challenging Allah openly.
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00:34:45
It's like there are two kind of sin.
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00:34:47
And the Prophet said.
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00:34:56
All my ummah who commit sin will be
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00:34:56
forgiven.
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00:35:04
Except the person who commit sin openly.
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00:35:09
Proudly declare it to everybody.
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00:35:10
What can you do to me?
00:35:11 -->
00:35:12
Yes, I have done this.
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00:35:15
So there are two kind of sins.
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00:35:19
Even how major the sin if you like.
00:35:19 -->
00:35:21
You drink alcohol.
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00:35:25
You drink all the intoxicated drink.
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00:35:26
You do it openly.
00:35:27 -->
00:35:28
Cheers.
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00:35:31
With all the photos, with all the videos.
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00:35:33
To show the world.
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00:35:35
I am a good drinker.
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00:35:39
And sometimes you dare.
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00:35:42
This is not haram to me.
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00:35:43
Who said haram?
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00:35:47
And he try to provoke the Muslim again.
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00:35:48
By saying.
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00:35:49
He drink.
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00:35:53
Then.
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00:35:56
According to the hadith.
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00:35:58
If he is doing that or he is
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00:35:59
doing that.
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00:36:01
If he die that time.
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00:36:02
Allah will not forgive him.
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00:36:09
Because he is challenging Allah's authority openly.
00:36:09 -->
00:36:11
But there are lot of people who drink
00:36:11 -->
00:36:11
today.
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00:36:14
But they do it privately.
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00:36:17
Their sin will be forgiven.
00:36:18 -->
00:36:19
There is a different kind of.
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00:36:24
Category when you do something haram openly.
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00:36:26
And you do secretly.
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00:36:29
Yeah.
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00:36:31
The second one is.
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00:36:33
Like I said those who are.
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00:36:35
Abandoning Islam.
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00:36:36
Yeah.
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00:36:38
For what purpose?
00:36:38 -->
00:36:39
Only Allah know.
00:36:39 -->
00:36:40
Maybe somebody is.
00:36:41 -->
00:36:42
Buying them over.
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00:36:44
There are time people buy you over.
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00:36:49
You like to migrate from the Muslim environment.
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00:36:51
To the non-Islamic environment.
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00:36:53
For dunya.
00:36:55 -->
00:36:56
And suddenly people say.
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00:36:58
This is a good.
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00:37:00
You have memorized the Quran.
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00:37:03
Everybody can do memorizing.
00:37:04 -->
00:37:06
Without understanding.
00:37:07 -->
00:37:09
You get the reward of memorizing.
00:37:10 -->
00:37:11
Reciting the Quran.
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00:37:13
But if you keep on going against Quran.
00:37:14 -->
00:37:15
Then you commit.
00:37:15 -->
00:37:17
More sin because.
00:37:18 -->
00:37:20
You know and you go against it.
00:37:23 -->
00:37:25
Then people buy them over.
00:37:26 -->
00:37:28
Be like us.
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00:37:30
Be a Nasarah.
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00:37:34
And now she becomes so popular.
00:37:34 -->
00:37:36
They give them all the platform.
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00:37:38
For him or for her.
00:37:38 -->
00:37:39
To share his.
00:37:39 -->
00:37:42
And now he is talking against Islam openly.
00:37:43 -->
00:37:45
I was born in a Muslim country.
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00:37:47
I learned the Quran.
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00:37:48
I was an Imam.
00:37:48 -->
00:37:49
Only Allah knows.
00:37:50 -->
00:37:52
What kind of Imam he is.
00:37:52 -->
00:37:54
Maybe he is an Imam at home only.
00:37:55 -->
00:37:57
That he is claiming I was an Imam.
00:37:57 -->
00:37:58
And now I have left.
00:37:59 -->
00:38:00
Because I found.
00:38:00 -->
00:38:02
The true God.
00:38:04 -->
00:38:05
Who do he found?
00:38:05 -->
00:38:06
He found Jesus.
00:38:08 -->
00:38:09
You don't have to.
00:38:10 -->
00:38:11
Talk to us in that manner.
00:38:12 -->
00:38:13
Because no Muslim.
00:38:14 -->
00:38:15
Who reject Jesus.
00:38:15 -->
00:38:17
Every Muslim who believe in Allah.
00:38:18 -->
00:38:19
Who believe in Prophet Muhammad.
00:38:20 -->
00:38:21
Believe in Jesus.
00:38:21 -->
00:38:22
We have no problem.
00:38:24 -->
00:38:26
But we believe in Jesus.
00:38:26 -->
00:38:28
The way Jesus want us to believe in
00:38:28 -->
00:38:28
him.
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00:38:30
Not the way they created.
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00:38:35
That Jesus is not a human anymore.
00:38:35 -->
00:38:36
He is more than a human.
00:38:38 -->
00:38:38
Example.
00:38:40 -->
00:38:41
And the third group is what?
00:38:43 -->
00:38:44
Those who are married.
00:38:44 -->
00:38:45
And commit adultery.
00:38:50 -->
00:38:52
A woman came to the Prophet.
00:38:52 -->
00:38:55
And confess that she was pregnant.
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00:38:57
From Zina.
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00:38:59
Very important for us.
00:38:59 -->
00:39:01
To learn about this ruling.
00:39:03 -->
00:39:04
The Prophet.
00:39:05 -->
00:39:08
Asked a man from the Ansar.
00:39:08 -->
00:39:09
Means the people.
00:39:09 -->
00:39:11
This happened in Medina.
00:39:12 -->
00:39:14
To take her into his custody.
00:39:14 -->
00:39:16
Until she delivered her baby.
00:39:19 -->
00:39:20
After delivery.
00:39:20 -->
00:39:21
The Prophet said.
00:39:23 -->
00:39:25
We cannot stone her.
00:39:27 -->
00:39:28
And leave her young baby.
00:39:29 -->
00:39:30
With no one to breastfeed it.
00:39:33 -->
00:39:34
You cannot do that.
00:39:34 -->
00:39:35
You can be punished.
00:39:35 -->
00:39:35
But now.
00:39:36 -->
00:39:37
You have an obligation.
00:39:38 -->
00:39:38
Towards the baby.
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00:39:42
And the baby have right upon you.
00:39:43 -->
00:39:44
For two years.
00:39:44 -->
00:39:44
Breastfeeding.
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00:39:50
A man from the Ansar.
00:39:50 -->
00:39:51
Who give the protection.
00:39:51 -->
00:39:53
Plans to provide a wet nurse.
00:39:53 -->
00:39:54
For the baby.
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00:39:57
The Prophet then had stoned.
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00:39:59
And said.
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00:40:01
Had her stoned.
00:40:01 -->
00:40:02
Indeed she has repented.
00:40:04 -->
00:40:05
Such a repentance.
00:40:06 -->
00:40:08
That were it to be divided.
00:40:08 -->
00:40:09
Among the 70.
00:40:10 -->
00:40:11
Of all Medina's residents.
00:40:12 -->
00:40:14
It could encompass them.
00:40:15 -->
00:40:17
Have you seen a better repentance.
00:40:17 -->
00:40:18
Than giving herself.
00:40:18 -->
00:40:19
For Allah.
00:40:22 -->
00:40:23
Now what.
00:40:23 -->
00:40:25
The spirit of this Hadith.
00:40:25 -->
00:40:26
What happened.
00:40:28 -->
00:40:30
You never find a case.
00:40:30 -->
00:40:31
That the Prophet.
00:40:32 -->
00:40:33
Han.
00:40:33 -->
00:40:34
Send people.
00:40:34 -->
00:40:35
You know.
00:40:35 -->
00:40:36
To spy on.
00:40:37 -->
00:40:38
Other people's sin.
00:40:39 -->
00:40:40
The Prophet.
00:40:40 -->
00:40:41
Don't do that.
00:40:41 -->
00:40:42
Because.
00:40:43 -->
00:40:43
Spying.
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00:40:45
Is haram.
00:40:45 -->
00:40:45
Or later.
00:40:45 -->
00:40:46
Jassasu.
00:40:50 -->
00:40:51
Is like some people today.
00:40:52 -->
00:40:52
Trying to reinforce.
00:40:53 -->
00:40:53
Certain ruling.
00:40:54 -->
00:40:56
Be purposely planned.
00:40:57 -->
00:40:57
There is.
00:40:57 -->
00:40:58
There is wrong.
00:40:58 -->
00:40:58
You can't.
00:40:59 -->
00:40:59
You should.
00:41:00 -->
00:41:01
Prevent.
00:41:02 -->
00:41:03
Prevention is better than cure.
00:41:04 -->
00:41:05
If you know somebody.
00:41:05 -->
00:41:05
Going to do.
00:41:05 -->
00:41:07
Then you can just stop them.
00:41:08 -->
00:41:09
You don't let them do.
00:41:09 -->
00:41:10
Then you come after that.
00:41:11 -->
00:41:12
In a private area.
00:41:12 -->
00:41:13
There is.
00:41:13 -->
00:41:14
An Islamic.
00:41:17 -->
00:41:18
Very un-Islamic.
00:41:22 -->
00:41:23
Islamic education.
00:41:24 -->
00:41:25
Start from home.
00:41:26 -->
00:41:26
From young.
00:41:28 -->
00:41:29
So that every man.
00:41:29 -->
00:41:29
Honor.
00:41:31 -->
00:41:32
The other woman.
00:41:34 -->
00:41:36
Respect each other.
00:41:37 -->
00:41:38
Care for each other.
00:41:38 -->
00:41:39
Protect each other.
00:41:41 -->
00:41:43
That's how we move on.
00:41:47 -->
00:41:49
Now what the story of this case that
00:41:49 -->
00:41:50
I like to share.
00:41:52 -->
00:41:55
The woman who commit this sin.
00:41:55 -->
00:41:56
Approach the Prophet.
00:41:56 -->
00:41:58
It's not that the Prophet look for this
00:41:58 -->
00:41:59
kind of.
00:41:59 -->
00:41:59
Sinner.
00:41:59 -->
00:42:00
No, no, no.
00:42:05 -->
00:42:06
And she admit.
00:42:07 -->
00:42:09
The Prophet do not want to entertain.
00:42:11 -->
00:42:11
What is your proof?
00:42:12 -->
00:42:14
The Prophet never even ask who is the
00:42:14 -->
00:42:14
guy.
00:42:15 -->
00:42:16
No.
00:42:16 -->
00:42:18
You come to me.
00:42:18 -->
00:42:19
You admit.
00:42:19 -->
00:42:21
I do not want to entertain.
00:42:21 -->
00:42:21
Why?
00:42:22 -->
00:42:24
Maybe something is not right.
00:42:25 -->
00:42:28
Normally people who commit something wrong.
00:42:29 -->
00:42:31
They do not want.
00:42:33 -->
00:42:34
Anybody to know.
00:42:35 -->
00:42:36
Neither they want.
00:42:36 -->
00:42:37
To be punished.
00:42:40 -->
00:42:42
It's like people go and steal people's money.
00:42:43 -->
00:42:43
And then he come.
00:42:43 -->
00:42:46
This is the money I stole.
00:42:51 -->
00:42:53
You have got the money.
00:42:53 -->
00:42:55
And the person don't know who is the
00:42:55 -->
00:42:55
one who stole it.
00:42:56 -->
00:42:56
That mean.
00:42:57 -->
00:42:59
You can enjoy your life with the money.
00:43:00 -->
00:43:01
You are free man.
00:43:01 -->
00:43:04
Because nobody know who is the one who
00:43:04 -->
00:43:04
stole it.
00:43:06 -->
00:43:07
But you come forward.
00:43:08 -->
00:43:09
I am the one.
00:43:10 -->
00:43:13
So normally the Prophet will not entertain.
00:43:13 -->
00:43:14
If so.
00:43:14 -->
00:43:16
If so then he said.
00:43:16 -->
00:43:17
Somebody must protect.
00:43:18 -->
00:43:19
Because if she is pregnant.
00:43:19 -->
00:43:22
Because she give an evidence.
00:43:22 -->
00:43:25
What is your evidence that you commit Zina?
00:43:25 -->
00:43:26
I am pregnant.
00:43:27 -->
00:43:28
And that is one evidence.
00:43:30 -->
00:43:31
If you are not pregnant.
00:43:32 -->
00:43:34
I am not going to come after you.
00:43:35 -->
00:43:38
Maybe you have some problem here.
00:43:40 -->
00:43:41
You want to commit suicide.
00:43:41 -->
00:43:43
You want us to help you to commit
00:43:43 -->
00:43:43
suicide.
00:43:43 -->
00:43:44
We don't do that.
00:43:46 -->
00:43:47
So you see.
00:43:47 -->
00:43:49
How the Islamic law is very very.
00:43:52 -->
00:43:53
Very refined.
00:43:53 -->
00:43:54
It is not just.
00:43:54 -->
00:43:55
He will say.
00:43:55 -->
00:43:56
I accept.
00:43:56 -->
00:43:57
Punish.
00:43:57 -->
00:43:57
No.
00:43:59 -->
00:44:01
And the interesting part is.
00:44:02 -->
00:44:03
The Prophet never.
00:44:03 -->
00:44:04
Who is the guy.
00:44:04 -->
00:44:05
Who cause you.
00:44:06 -->
00:44:07
To get pregnant.
00:44:07 -->
00:44:07
No.
00:44:08 -->
00:44:09
You committed Zina.
00:44:09 -->
00:44:10
You come to me.
00:44:10 -->
00:44:11
I handle you personally.
00:44:11 -->
00:44:17
Today people who commit Zina secretly.
00:44:18 -->
00:44:20
After that they go and declare openly.
00:44:20 -->
00:44:22
And they get the other people involved.
00:44:25 -->
00:44:26
That is very wrong.
00:44:26 -->
00:44:28
Islamically is very wrong.
00:44:28 -->
00:44:28
Even.
00:44:29 -->
00:44:30
Both party is wrong.
00:44:31 -->
00:44:32
But if you are the one who want
00:44:32 -->
00:44:33
to admit.
00:44:33 -->
00:44:35
May Allah forgive you.
00:44:36 -->
00:44:38
But you should not drag the others.
00:44:40 -->
00:44:42
Until the others also come.
00:44:42 -->
00:44:44
I am the one.
00:44:45 -->
00:44:46
In the time of Omar.
00:44:46 -->
00:44:47
If this thing happen.
00:44:48 -->
00:44:50
When Islam is spreading.
00:44:50 -->
00:44:51
Just spreading.
00:44:52 -->
00:44:54
To Rome and Persia.
00:44:55 -->
00:44:56
They don't reinforce that punishment.
00:44:58 -->
00:44:59
Because they are news.
00:45:00 -->
00:45:03
All this kind of relation is so common
00:45:03 -->
00:45:03
before.
00:45:04 -->
00:45:05
They get them married.
00:45:07 -->
00:45:08
If they are not a married woman.
00:45:09 -->
00:45:10
They just get them married.
00:45:11 -->
00:45:12
Close the case.
00:45:12 -->
00:45:13
And move forward.
00:45:14 -->
00:45:15
There are many way.
00:45:16 -->
00:45:17
To move forward.
00:45:17 -->
00:45:17
Positively.
00:45:17 -->
00:45:18
If you want.
00:45:20 -->
00:45:20
You see.
00:45:20 -->
00:45:22
The girl who are pregnant.
00:45:23 -->
00:45:24
Confess to the Prophet.
00:45:25 -->
00:45:25
The Prophet.
00:45:26 -->
00:45:28
Give her the protection.
00:45:29 -->
00:45:31
After giving protection.
00:45:31 -->
00:45:33
Wait for the baby to be born.
00:45:34 -->
00:45:36
After the baby is being born.
00:45:37 -->
00:45:39
The mother still have right.
00:45:39 -->
00:45:39
Two years.
00:45:40 -->
00:45:41
Until you find.
00:45:42 -->
00:45:42
Another.
00:45:44 -->
00:45:46
Mother who can.
00:45:46 -->
00:45:48
Breastfeed this baby.
00:45:48 -->
00:45:48
If you can't.
00:45:48 -->
00:45:50
You cannot take her life.
00:45:51 -->
00:45:54
You must honor the baby's right.
00:45:55 -->
00:45:56
To show you that.
00:45:56 -->
00:45:58
Every child born.
00:45:59 -->
00:46:00
Then the right.
00:46:00 -->
00:46:01
Is being given.
00:46:01 -->
00:46:02
And being protected.
00:46:04 -->
00:46:05
From baby.
00:46:08 -->
00:46:09
That's why Allah said.
00:46:14 -->
00:46:18
You are not supposed to terminate.
00:46:18 -->
00:46:20
The newborn baby.
00:46:22 -->
00:46:23
The life.
00:46:23 -->
00:46:25
Of any newborn baby.
00:46:26 -->
00:46:27
Because the fear.
00:46:28 -->
00:46:28
Of poverty.
00:46:29 -->
00:46:30
We are.
00:46:30 -->
00:46:32
We don't have enough food.
00:46:33 -->
00:46:34
We don't have enough money.
00:46:34 -->
00:46:35
How can we survive?
00:46:36 -->
00:46:36
We better.
00:46:37 -->
00:46:39
Kill this baby.
00:46:40 -->
00:46:41
To make.
00:46:42 -->
00:46:43
His life.
00:46:44 -->
00:46:44
Easier.
00:46:44 -->
00:46:45
And our life.
00:46:45 -->
00:46:45
Easier.
00:46:46 -->
00:46:46
What did Allah say?
00:46:47 -->
00:46:48
Don't ever have.
00:46:49 -->
00:46:49
An intention.
00:46:49 -->
00:46:50
To kill.
00:46:50 -->
00:46:51
A person.
00:46:51 -->
00:46:51
A baby.
00:46:52 -->
00:46:53
Out of.
00:46:53 -->
00:46:53
Fear.
00:46:54 -->
00:46:54
Of poverty.
00:46:55 -->
00:46:55
Fear.
00:46:55 -->
00:46:56
Of poverty.
00:46:58 -->
00:47:00
Not really poor yet.
00:47:00 -->
00:47:01
You only.
00:47:01 -->
00:47:01
Worry.
00:47:02 -->
00:47:02
That you become.
00:47:03 -->
00:47:03
Poor.
00:47:04 -->
00:47:05
Because of.
00:47:05 -->
00:47:05
An extended.
00:47:06 -->
00:47:07
Person in the family.
00:47:09 -->
00:47:09
Why.
00:47:11 -->
00:47:11
You fear.
00:47:12 -->
00:47:12
That there's not.
00:47:12 -->
00:47:13
Not enough food.
00:47:13 -->
00:47:14
For the baby.
00:47:15 -->
00:47:16
Not enough.
00:47:16 -->
00:47:16
Provision.
00:47:17 -->
00:47:17
Allah said.
00:47:19 -->
00:47:20
We are the one.
00:47:20 -->
00:47:21
Who provide.
00:47:21 -->
00:47:22
For you.
00:47:22 -->
00:47:23
And also.
00:47:23 -->
00:47:23
For them.
00:47:24 -->
00:47:25
That's why.
00:47:25 -->
00:47:25
Baby.
00:47:25 -->
00:47:26
When they want.
00:47:26 -->
00:47:26
To be born.
00:47:27 -->
00:47:27
Allah.
00:47:27 -->
00:47:28
Have provide.
00:47:28 -->
00:47:28
Their risk.
00:47:28 -->
00:47:29
To the mother.
00:47:33 -->
00:47:34
They have their.
00:47:34 -->
00:47:34
Provision.
00:47:35 -->
00:47:35
Baby.
00:47:36 -->
00:47:36
Don't eat a lot.
00:47:39 -->
00:47:40
But.
00:47:40 -->
00:47:40
Fresh.
00:47:40 -->
00:47:41
Breastfeeding.
00:47:42 -->
00:47:42
Yeah.
00:47:43 -->
00:47:44
Breastfeeding.
00:47:44 -->
00:47:44
That.
00:47:44 -->
00:47:45
Become.
00:47:47 -->
00:47:48
Is.
00:47:48 -->
00:47:49
Related.
00:47:49 -->
00:47:50
Become.
00:47:50 -->
00:47:50
The relative.
00:47:51 -->
00:47:51
Of the.
00:47:51 -->
00:47:51
Other.
00:47:51 -->
00:47:52
Children.
00:47:53 -->
00:47:54
From the same.
00:47:54 -->
00:47:54
Mother.
00:47:54 -->
00:47:55
Who breastfeed.
00:47:56 -->
00:47:57
The other.
00:47:57 -->
00:47:57
People's.
00:47:57 -->
00:47:58
Baby.
00:48:00 -->
00:48:01
With.
00:48:01 -->
00:48:01
A condition.
00:48:02 -->
00:48:03
They breastfeed.
00:48:03 -->
00:48:04
The child.
00:48:04 -->
00:48:05
Five.
00:48:05 -->
00:48:05
Times.
00:48:06 -->
00:48:06
Minimum.
00:48:07 -->
00:48:07
Five.
00:48:07 -->
00:48:08
Times.
00:48:09 -->
00:48:09
If.
00:48:10 -->
00:48:10
Breastfeed.
00:48:10 -->
00:48:11
Any.
00:48:11 -->
00:48:11
Children.
00:48:12 -->
00:48:12
Less.
00:48:12 -->
00:48:12
Than.
00:48:12 -->
00:48:12
Five.
00:48:13 -->
00:48:13
Them.
00:48:13 -->
00:48:13
That.
00:48:13 -->
00:48:14
Child.
00:48:15 -->
00:48:15
Is.
00:48:15 -->
00:48:16
Not.
00:48:16 -->
00:48:16
The.
00:48:16 -->
00:48:17
Breastfeeding.
00:48:17 -->
00:48:17
Baby.
00:48:18 -->
00:48:19
That.
00:48:19 -->
00:48:19
Child.
00:48:19 -->
00:48:19
Is.
00:48:19 -->
00:48:20
Halal.
00:48:20 -->
00:48:20
To get.
00:48:20 -->
00:48:20
Married.
00:48:21 -->
00:48:21
With.
00:48:21 -->
00:48:21
Your.
00:48:22 -->
00:48:22
Children.
00:48:24 -->
00:48:24
But.
00:48:24 -->
00:48:24
If.
00:48:24 -->
00:48:25
After.
00:48:25 -->
00:48:25
Five.
00:48:26 -->
00:48:26
Breastfeeding.
00:48:28 -->
00:48:28
Then.
00:48:28 -->
00:48:28
Is.
00:48:28 -->
00:48:29
Haram.
00:48:30 -->
00:48:30
They.
00:48:30 -->
00:48:30
Become.
00:48:30 -->
00:48:31
Mahram.
00:48:32 -->
00:48:32
Your.
00:48:33 -->
00:48:33
Son.
00:48:33 -->
00:48:34
And.
00:48:34 -->
00:48:34
This.
00:48:34 -->
00:48:34
Girl.
00:48:35 -->
00:48:35
Or.
00:48:35 -->
00:48:35
This.
00:48:35 -->
00:48:36
Son.
00:48:36 -->
00:48:36
And.
00:48:36 -->
00:48:36
That.
00:48:36 -->
00:48:37
Your.
00:48:37 -->
00:48:37
Daughter.
00:48:37 -->
00:48:38
Is.
00:48:38 -->
00:48:38
A.
00:48:38 -->
00:48:38
Mahram.
00:48:38 -->
00:48:38
They.
00:48:38 -->
00:48:39
Cannot.
00:48:39 -->
00:48:39
Get.
00:48:39 -->
00:48:39
Married.
00:48:43 -->
00:48:43
You.
00:48:44 -->
00:48:45
Are.
00:48:45 -->
00:48:45
Mahram.
00:48:46 -->
00:48:46
In.
00:48:46 -->
00:48:47
Relationship.
00:48:47 -->
00:48:47
That.
00:48:47 -->
00:48:48
Sense.
00:48:50 -->
00:48:50
But.
00:48:50 -->
00:48:51
You.
00:48:51 -->
00:48:51
Don't.
00:48:51 -->
00:48:51
Have.
00:48:51 -->
00:48:51
The.
00:48:51 -->
00:48:52
Right.
00:48:52 -->
00:48:52
To.
00:48:52 -->
00:48:53
Inherit.
00:48:53 -->
00:48:53
Property.
00:48:54 -->
00:48:54
From.
00:48:54 -->
00:48:54
That.
00:48:54 -->
00:48:55
Family.
00:48:57 -->
00:48:58
Property.
00:48:58 -->
00:48:58
No.
00:49:00 -->
00:49:00
There's.
00:49:01 -->
00:49:01
Limit.
00:49:01 -->
00:49:01
In.
00:49:01 -->
00:49:02
Everything.
00:49:03 -->
00:49:03
So.
00:49:03 -->
00:49:03
It's.
00:49:04 -->
00:49:04
Important.
00:49:04 -->
00:49:04
For.
00:49:04 -->
00:49:05
Us.
00:49:05 -->
00:49:05
To.
00:49:05 -->
00:49:05
Understand.
00:49:06 -->
00:49:06
This.
00:49:06 -->
00:49:06
Kind.
00:49:06 -->
00:49:06
Of.
00:49:06 -->
00:49:07
Law.
00:49:08 -->
00:49:08
So.
00:49:08 -->
00:49:08
That.
00:49:08 -->
00:49:08
When.
00:49:08 -->
00:49:09
You.
00:49:09 -->
00:49:09
Encounter.
00:49:11 -->
00:49:11
This.
00:49:11 -->
00:49:11
Kind.
00:49:11 -->
00:49:11
Of.
00:49:11 -->
00:49:12
Situation.
00:49:12 -->
00:49:12
In.
00:49:12 -->
00:49:12
The.
00:49:12 -->
00:49:13
Future.
00:49:13 -->
00:49:13
We.
00:49:14 -->
00:49:14
Don't.
00:49:14 -->
00:49:14
Know.
00:49:15 -->
00:49:16
Some.
00:49:16 -->
00:49:16
Very.
00:49:16 -->
00:49:17
Innocent.
00:49:17 -->
00:49:17
Ignorant.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:18
Do.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:18
A.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:18
Lot.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:19
Wrong.
00:49:19 -->
00:49:19
Thing.
00:49:19 -->
00:49:19
And.
00:49:19 -->
00:49:19
Then.
00:49:19 -->
00:49:19
They.
00:49:19 -->
00:49:20
Don't.
00:49:20 -->
00:49:20
Know.
00:49:20 -->
00:49:21
And.
00:49:21 -->
00:49:21
It.
00:49:22 -->
00:49:22
Had.
00:49:22 -->
00:49:22
Happened.
00:49:22 -->
00:49:22
In.
00:49:22 -->
00:49:22
Our.
00:49:23 -->
00:49:23
Country.
00:49:24 -->
00:49:25
After.
00:49:25 -->
00:49:25
They.
00:49:25 -->
00:49:25
Got.
00:49:25 -->
00:49:25
Married.
00:49:26 -->
00:49:26
After.
00:49:26 -->
00:49:26
They.
00:49:26 -->
00:49:26
Got.
00:49:27 -->
00:49:27
Few.
00:49:27 -->
00:49:28
Children.
00:49:28 -->
00:49:29
They.
00:49:29 -->
00:49:29
Are.
00:49:29 -->
00:49:30
Happy.
00:49:30 -->
00:49:30
Family.
00:49:31 -->
00:49:31
Husband.
00:49:31 -->
00:49:32
And.
00:49:32 -->
00:49:32
One.
00:49:32 -->
00:49:32
Child.
00:49:33 -->
00:49:33
Then.
00:49:33 -->
00:49:34
Somebody.
00:49:34 -->
00:49:34
Appear.
00:49:34 -->
00:49:35
To.
00:49:35 -->
00:49:35
Confirm.
00:49:36 -->
00:49:37
These.
00:49:37 -->
00:49:37
Are.
00:49:37 -->
00:49:37
The.
00:49:38 -->
00:49:38
Breastfeeding.
00:49:38 -->
00:49:39
Sibling.
00:49:43 -->
00:49:43
What.
00:49:43 -->
00:49:43
To.
00:49:43 -->
00:49:44
Do.
00:49:44 -->
00:49:44
Now.
00:49:46 -->
00:49:46
This.
00:49:46 -->
00:49:46
Is.
00:49:46 -->
00:49:47
A.
00:49:47 -->
00:49:47
Breastfeeding.
00:49:49 -->
00:49:49
Children.
00:49:50 -->
00:49:50
They.
00:49:50 -->
00:49:51
Cannot.
00:49:52 -->
00:49:52
Married.
00:49:52 -->
00:49:52
But.
00:49:52 -->
00:49:52
They.
00:49:53 -->
00:49:53
Are.
00:49:53 -->
00:49:54
Now.
00:49:54 -->
00:49:54
Married.
00:49:55 -->
00:49:55
With.
00:49:55 -->
00:49:55
Children.
00:50:00 -->
00:50:00
But.
00:50:00 -->
00:50:00
One.
00:50:01 -->
00:50:01
Is.
00:50:01 -->
00:50:01
Confirm.
00:50:03 -->
00:50:03
Of.
00:50:03 -->
00:50:03
God.
00:50:05 -->
00:50:05
The.
00:50:05 -->
00:50:05
Sharia.
00:50:05 -->
00:50:06
Law.
00:50:06 -->
00:50:06
Have.
00:50:06 -->
00:50:06
To.
00:50:06 -->
00:50:06
Come.
00:50:06 -->
00:50:07
And.
00:50:07 -->
00:50:07
Say.
00:50:08 -->
00:50:08
You.
00:50:08 -->
00:50:08
Are.
00:50:08 -->
00:50:09
Married.
00:50:10 -->
00:50:10
And.
00:50:10 -->
00:50:10
Now.
00:50:12 -->
00:50:13
Is.
00:50:13 -->
00:50:13
Easy.
00:50:15 -->
00:50:15
Very.
00:50:16 -->
00:50:16
Difficult.
00:50:17 -->
00:50:18
They.
00:50:18 -->
00:50:18
Have.
00:50:18 -->
00:50:19
Developed.
00:50:19 -->
00:50:19
The.
00:50:19 -->
00:50:19
Love.
00:50:19 -->
00:50:19
For.
00:50:19 -->
00:50:19
Each.
00:50:20 -->
00:50:20
Other.
00:50:21 -->
00:50:21
And.
00:50:21 -->
00:50:21
They.
00:50:21 -->
00:50:21
Have.
00:50:21 -->
00:50:22
Children.
00:50:22 -->
00:50:22
And.
00:50:22 -->
00:50:22
They.
00:50:22 -->
00:50:22
Are.
00:50:22 -->
00:50:23
Happy.
00:50:23 -->
00:50:23
Family.
00:50:27 -->
00:50:27
What.
00:50:27 -->
00:50:27
Is.
00:50:27 -->
00:50:27
Going.
00:50:27 -->
00:50:27
To.
00:50:27 -->
00:50:28
Happen.
00:50:28 -->
00:50:28
To.
00:50:28 -->
00:50:28
Their.
00:50:28 -->
00:50:29
Children.
00:50:29 -->
00:50:29
Again.
00:50:30 -->
00:50:30
You.
00:50:31 -->
00:50:31
See.
00:50:31 -->
00:50:31
The.
00:50:31 -->
00:50:31
Confusion.
00:50:32 -->
00:50:33
That's.
00:50:33 -->
00:50:33
Why.
00:50:33 -->
00:50:33
Islam.
00:50:33 -->
00:50:33
Do.
00:50:33 -->
00:50:34
Not.
00:50:34 -->
00:50:34
Want.
00:50:34 -->
00:50:34
All.
00:50:34 -->
00:50:35
This.
00:50:35 -->
00:50:36
Confusion.
00:50:36 -->
00:50:36
To.
00:50:36 -->
00:50:36
Take.
00:50:37 -->
00:50:37
Everybody.
00:50:39 -->
00:50:39
Who.
00:50:39 -->
00:50:39
Have.
00:50:39 -->
00:50:40
That.
00:50:40 -->
00:50:40
Kind.
00:50:40 -->
00:50:40
Of.
00:50:41 -->
00:50:41
Plan.
00:50:42 -->
00:50:43
To.
00:50:43 -->
00:50:43
Extend.
00:50:44 -->
00:50:44
The.
00:50:44 -->
00:50:45
Children's.
00:50:45 -->
00:50:45
Relationship.
00:50:46 -->
00:50:46
Other.
00:50:46 -->
00:50:47
Children.
00:50:48 -->
00:50:48
To.
00:50:49 -->
00:50:49
Offer.
00:50:49 -->
00:50:49
Your.
00:50:49 -->
00:50:49
Baby.
00:50:50 -->
00:50:50
To.
00:50:50 -->
00:50:50
Another.
00:50:50 -->
00:50:51
Woman.
00:50:51 -->
00:50:51
For.
00:50:51 -->
00:50:52
Breastfeeding.
00:50:52 -->
00:50:52
You.
00:50:52 -->
00:50:52
Can.
00:50:53 -->
00:50:54
Islamically.
00:50:54 -->
00:50:54
Is.
00:50:54 -->
00:50:54
Allowed.
00:50:55 -->
00:50:55
Is.
00:50:55 -->
00:50:55
Also.
00:50:55 -->
00:50:55
A.
00:50:56 -->
00:50:56
Sunnah.
00:50:56 -->
00:50:56
It.
00:50:56 -->
00:50:57
Happened.
00:50:57 -->
00:50:57
To.
00:50:57 -->
00:50:57
The.
00:50:57 -->
00:50:57
Prophet.
00:50:58 -->
00:50:58
And.
00:50:58 -->
00:50:58
It.
00:50:58 -->
00:50:59
Happened.
00:50:59 -->
00:50:59
Time.
00:50:59 -->
00:50:59
Of.
00:50:59 -->
00:50:59
The.
00:50:59 -->
00:51:00
Prophet.
00:51:01 -->
00:51:01
But.
00:51:01 -->
00:51:02
Please.
00:51:02 -->
00:51:02
Everybody.
00:51:03 -->
00:51:03
Must.
00:51:03 -->
00:51:04
Record.
00:51:04 -->
00:51:04
It.
00:51:05 -->
00:51:05
Properly.
00:51:08 -->
00:51:08
Very.
00:51:08 -->
00:51:08
Very.
00:51:08 -->
00:51:09
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Children.
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You.
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Always.
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Don't.
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Paradise.
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Are.
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To.
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Have.
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Will.
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Be.
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You.
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Say.
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Oh.
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God.
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Don't.
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Allow.
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Anyone.
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Among.
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Prophet.
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Who.
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And.
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They're.
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He.
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Make.
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That.
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Prayer.
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And.
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The.
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Prophet.
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Say.
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Amen.
00:58:59 -->
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Powerful.
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Prayer.
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So.
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The.
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You.
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Are.
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To.
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The.
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You.
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A.
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Lot.
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Of.
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Blessings.
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So.
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That's.
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Very.
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Important.
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Us.
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Who.
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Have.
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Us.
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Will.
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Never.
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Anything.
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Prophet.
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Commit.
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There's.
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No.
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Real.
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Sharia.
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To.
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Handle.
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You.
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00:59:50
Just.
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00:59:50
Repent.
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00:59:50
To.
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00:59:51
Allah.
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00:59:55
After.
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00:59:55
Repenting.
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00:59:57
You.
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00:59:57
Make.
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Sure.
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00:59:58
You.
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00:59:58
Strengthen.
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Your.
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Iman.
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01:00:03
And.
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01:00:06
With.
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01:00:06
Righteous.
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01:00:06
Deeds.
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01:00:08
Be.
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01:00:08
More.
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01:00:09
Active.
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01:00:09
In.
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01:00:10
Doing.
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01:00:10
Righteous.
01:00:10 -->
01:00:10
Deeds.
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01:00:11
Do.
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01:00:11
Good.
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01:00:11
A.
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01:00:11
Lot.
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01:00:12
Of.
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01:00:12
Good.
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01:00:12
Things.
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01:00:15
You.
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01:00:16
Do.
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01:00:16
Not.
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01:00:16
Just.
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01:00:17
Stop.
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01:00:18
Doing.
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01:00:18
The.
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01:00:18
Bad.
01:00:18 -->
01:00:18
Thing.
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01:00:19
And.
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01:00:19
Not.
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01:00:19
Doing.
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01:00:20
The.
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01:00:20
Good.
01:00:20 -->
01:00:20
Thing.
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01:00:20
To.
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01:00:22
You.
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01:00:22
Are.
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01:00:22
Just.
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01:00:22
Stop.
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01:00:23
Doing.
01:00:23 -->
01:00:23
Bad.
01:00:23 -->
01:00:23
Thing.
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01:00:23
But.
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01:00:24
You.
01:00:24 -->
01:00:24
Are.
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01:00:25
Very.
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01:00:26
Selfish.
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01:00:27
Still.
01:00:27 -->
01:00:27
Very.
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01:00:28
Arrogant.
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01:00:29
In.
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01:00:30
Your.
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01:00:30
Way.
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01:00:42
You.
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01:00:43
Must.
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01:00:43
Do.
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01:00:44
And.
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01:00:46
Good.
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01:00:47
Indeed.
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01:00:47
All.
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01:00:48
Good.
01:00:48 -->
01:00:48
Deeds.
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01:00:49
That.
01:00:49 -->
01:00:49
You.
01:00:49 -->
01:00:49
Are.
01:00:49 -->
01:00:49
Doing.
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01:00:50
For.
01:00:50 -->
01:00:50
The.
01:00:50 -->
01:00:50
Sake.
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01:00:51
Of.
01:00:51 -->
01:00:51
Allah.
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01:00:52
Follow.
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01:00:52
The.
01:00:52 -->
01:00:53
Way.
01:00:53 -->
01:00:53
Of.
01:00:53 -->
01:00:53
The.
01:00:53 -->
01:00:53
Prophet.
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01:00:55
Then.
01:00:56 -->
01:00:57
It.
01:00:57 -->
01:00:57
Will.
01:00:57 -->
01:00:58
Erase.
01:00:58 -->
01:01:00
all the sin that you have committed.
01:01:01 -->
01:01:05
One of the fastest way to erase our
01:01:05 -->
01:01:09
sin is by engaging in doing righteous deed.
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01:01:13
That's why in Al-Khadim we have our
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01:01:17
unit doing a lot of charity work helping
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01:01:21
the poor and needy because we want everybody
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01:01:24
to get this special blessing from Allah.
01:01:26 -->
01:01:29
Children also can participate but they have no
01:01:29 -->
01:01:29
money.
01:01:29 -->
01:01:30
Money is from their parents.
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01:01:32
They have energy.
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01:01:36
They can come and do some washing, cleaning
01:01:36 -->
01:01:36
up.
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01:01:41
Even when we have all this activity visit
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01:01:46
the poor people's home where their kitchen only
01:01:46 -->
01:01:47
Allah knows.
01:01:48 -->
01:01:50
All the rusty stuff is still around.
01:01:50 -->
01:01:52
How can they keep themselves healthy?
01:01:53 -->
01:01:55
And everybody is so sick sometimes.
01:01:55 -->
01:01:58
You have the bedridden adult in the house.
01:01:58 -->
01:02:01
You look at the kitchen only Allah knows.
01:02:01 -->
01:02:02
But they survive.
01:02:04 -->
01:02:06
You look at the bathroom.
01:02:06 -->
01:02:08
Yeah Allah.
01:02:10 -->
01:02:13
All the colors change.
01:02:16 -->
01:02:20
So what we do young people who have
01:02:20 -->
01:02:22
no money you just come with your energy
01:02:22 -->
01:02:25
and they love water so we also bring
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01:02:30
our grandchildren go do washing, cleaning the washroom.
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01:02:35
Clean their washroom because children like water so
01:02:35 -->
01:02:37
you get wet there and you do your
01:02:37 -->
01:02:38
cleaning.
01:02:38 -->
01:02:41
Give you all the equipment and then you
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01:02:42
start to do.
01:02:42 -->
01:02:43
Somebody monitor.
01:02:43 -->
01:02:46
Now the bathroom now is clean.
01:02:47 -->
01:02:48
Okay a clean bathroom.
01:02:50 -->
01:02:51
Yeah a clean toilet.
01:02:52 -->
01:02:54
You can be poor.
01:02:54 -->
01:02:56
You don't have to be dirty.
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01:03:01
But because these people mindset is different.
01:03:02 -->
01:03:05
When they are poor they become dirty.
01:03:06 -->
01:03:10
They thought that is part of the life
01:03:10 -->
01:03:12
of the poor people.
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01:03:12
No.
01:03:14 -->
01:03:16
And we start to see what is in
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01:03:16
the kitchen.
01:03:17 -->
01:03:21
All the rotten, all the rusty thing we
01:03:21 -->
01:03:22
took it over.
01:03:22 -->
01:03:26
Then suddenly we found a lot of visitors
01:03:26 -->
01:03:27
in the home.
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01:03:29
Rat this big.
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01:03:33
Like a baby cat running.
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01:03:36
Even the adult will jump.
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01:03:40
We don't, we are not used with this
01:03:40 -->
01:03:40
kind of rat.
01:03:41 -->
01:03:42
You only see the small small rat.
01:03:43 -->
01:03:44
This one big one healthy one.
01:03:45 -->
01:03:47
You know they have enough food everything.
01:03:48 -->
01:03:49
Because they're dirty.
01:03:49 -->
01:03:51
So you throw thing here, you throw thing
01:03:51 -->
01:03:51
there.
01:03:51 -->
01:03:55
So you invite all this other guests to
01:03:55 -->
01:03:55
come in.
01:03:56 -->
01:04:00
Yeah children also can but do something good
01:04:00 -->
01:04:01
in your life.
01:04:01 -->
01:04:02
What did Allah said?
01:04:03 -->
01:04:03
What did Allah promise?
01:04:04 -->
01:04:07
If you repent, you take care of your
01:04:07 -->
01:04:07
iman.
01:04:07 -->
01:04:08
Don't commit shirk.
01:04:09 -->
01:04:10
You may commit other sin.
01:04:10 -->
01:04:13
Don't ever commit shirk.
01:04:13 -->
01:04:14
Allah will forgive you.
01:04:14 -->
01:04:16
Then follow with righteousness.
01:04:16 -->
01:04:19
Be kind, be helpful to other people.
01:04:20 -->
01:04:21
What did Allah said?
01:04:23 -->
01:04:27
Allah said for you, baddilallahu sayyidatihim hasan.
01:04:28 -->
01:04:34
I will transfer, change all the sins that
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01:04:34
they have committed.
01:04:35 -->
01:04:37
Say you have 20 years of sin.
01:04:37 -->
01:04:41
Allah will change and transform the sin to
01:04:41 -->
01:04:42
be goodness.
01:04:43 -->
01:04:45
To be a reward for you.
01:04:46 -->
01:04:47
He do not just forgive you.
01:04:48 -->
01:04:53
But the sin that you have committed, maybe
01:04:53 -->
01:04:54
is it one ton of sin.
01:04:55 -->
01:04:58
Allah transfer the one ton of sin into
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01:05:00
one ton of goodness.
01:05:00 -->
01:05:04
To show his mercy for those who repent.
01:05:06 -->
01:05:06
Who stop.
01:05:11 -->
01:05:12
Remember?
01:05:15 -->
01:05:16
Allah's mercy.
01:05:20 -->
01:05:25
Never give up hope with Allah.
01:05:25 -->
01:05:28
Allah don't want you to give up hope.
01:05:29 -->
01:05:31
You remember the story?
01:05:31 -->
01:05:33
I like to end with this story.
01:05:35 -->
01:05:39
These two men, they are good friend.
01:05:41 -->
01:05:44
From young they grow together.
01:05:45 -->
01:05:48
They have been bad together too.
01:05:51 -->
01:05:52
Bad also together.
01:05:53 -->
01:05:56
Everything they do thing together.
01:05:58 -->
01:06:00
So one day Allah give hidayah to this
01:06:00 -->
01:06:00
man.
01:06:01 -->
01:06:02
One of the two.
01:06:03 -->
01:06:04
He start to change.
01:06:06 -->
01:06:08
So when he start to change, now he
01:06:08 -->
01:06:10
is advising his friend.
01:06:10 -->
01:06:11
Bad brother.
01:06:12 -->
01:06:13
Time to change.
01:06:13 -->
01:06:14
Why don't you stop?
01:06:14 -->
01:06:15
It's not good.
01:06:15 -->
01:06:16
You know it's not good.
01:06:16 -->
01:06:17
Now I have changed.
01:06:17 -->
01:06:18
You also can change.
01:06:19 -->
01:06:20
Okay.
01:06:20 -->
01:06:20
Okay.
01:06:20 -->
01:06:21
As friend.
01:06:22 -->
01:06:24
You are the angel now.
01:06:24 -->
01:06:25
I'm the evil one.
01:06:27 -->
01:06:27
They joke around.
01:06:29 -->
01:06:29
I will change.
01:06:30 -->
01:06:31
Don't worry.
01:06:31 -->
01:06:32
So they depart.
01:06:34 -->
01:06:36
After few months they met again.
01:06:37 -->
01:06:38
Old friend.
01:06:40 -->
01:06:41
How about?
01:06:41 -->
01:06:42
Still the same.
01:06:43 -->
01:06:43
Never change.
01:06:44 -->
01:06:46
Now the friend get upset.
01:06:47 -->
01:06:49
You told me you want to change.
01:06:50 -->
01:06:51
You see?
01:06:51 -->
01:06:52
You are still the same.
01:06:52 -->
01:06:52
Why?
01:06:53 -->
01:06:54
What is happening to you?
01:06:54 -->
01:06:57
If I can, why you can't?
01:06:59 -->
01:07:00
Come follow me.
01:07:00 -->
01:07:01
Be with me.
01:07:03 -->
01:07:04
Don't worry.
01:07:05 -->
01:07:06
Give me some time.
01:07:09 -->
01:07:10
Sometime they have good feeling.
01:07:11 -->
01:07:11
Pray for me.
01:07:12 -->
01:07:14
Of course we will pray for him.
01:07:16 -->
01:07:17
So they depart.
01:07:17 -->
01:07:18
Because he ask for extra time.
01:07:19 -->
01:07:19
They depart.
01:07:21 -->
01:07:23
After few months met again.
01:07:25 -->
01:07:33
And now he become more active in the
01:07:33 -->
01:07:33
bad thing.
01:07:35 -->
01:07:36
Last time he just a follower.
01:07:37 -->
01:07:38
Now he become a senior.
01:07:39 -->
01:07:44
Now he become the boss now.
01:07:45 -->
01:07:45
Upgraded.
01:07:47 -->
01:07:49
Now he become he have a lot of
01:07:49 -->
01:07:50
followers now.
01:07:51 -->
01:07:53
So the brother said to him, why?
01:07:54 -->
01:07:56
You promised me that you want to change.
01:07:56 -->
01:07:58
Now you are getting worse and worse.
01:07:58 -->
01:08:00
He was so upset.
01:08:00 -->
01:08:02
This good guy was so upset.
01:08:02 -->
01:08:04
What he said to his friend.
01:08:05 -->
01:08:06
It happened in the hadith.
01:08:06 -->
01:08:07
The prophet comment on this.
01:08:09 -->
01:08:11
He said, Allah will not forgive you.
01:08:11 -->
01:08:13
He will punish you.
01:08:13 -->
01:08:13
You go to *.
01:08:14 -->
01:08:15
Because you are so stubborn.
01:08:18 -->
01:08:21
After you have been talking, advising, he still
01:08:21 -->
01:08:21
refuse.
01:08:22 -->
01:08:23
He still play around with you.
01:08:23 -->
01:08:24
Joke around with you.
01:08:24 -->
01:08:25
You get so upset.
01:08:26 -->
01:08:27
He said, Allah will not forgive you.
01:08:29 -->
01:08:32
He used the word Allah will not forgive
01:08:32 -->
01:08:32
you.
01:08:32 -->
01:08:34
He is going to punish you.
01:08:34 -->
01:08:35
You are sure to go to *.
01:08:38 -->
01:08:39
So they depart.
01:08:40 -->
01:08:41
What happened?
01:08:41 -->
01:08:47
The prophet said, in the day of judgment,
01:08:48 -->
01:08:54
Allah will call these two guys and then
01:08:54 -->
01:08:58
Allah will ask that guy who seems to
01:08:58 -->
01:09:03
be a good guy now and said, who
01:09:03 -->
01:09:05
give you the right to use my name
01:09:05 -->
01:09:08
to say that I will not forgive him?
01:09:12 -->
01:09:15
Who give you the right to say that
01:09:15 -->
01:09:17
he will not go to paradise?
01:09:17 -->
01:09:19
He was sure to go to *.
01:09:20 -->
01:09:23
* and paradise belong to Allah, not belong
01:09:23 -->
01:09:24
to you.
01:09:28 -->
01:09:31
I'm always there to forgive anybody who want
01:09:31 -->
01:09:31
to change.
01:09:35 -->
01:09:36
You know, in the time of the prophet,
01:09:36 -->
01:09:39
we have cases that the prophet mentioned about
01:09:39 -->
01:09:42
a guy who have killed 99 lives.
01:09:44 -->
01:09:47
Now he want to change after killing 99.
01:09:50 -->
01:09:52
I think we have killed 99 mosquitos.
01:09:55 -->
01:09:56
Cockroaches not yet.
01:09:59 -->
01:10:03
99 lives and he want to repent.
01:10:03 -->
01:10:05
The poor guy said, too late.
01:10:06 -->
01:10:09
No, if you kill 9 persons at maybe
01:10:09 -->
01:10:11
99.
01:10:14 -->
01:10:15
He said, no, no.
01:10:16 -->
01:10:17
God will not forgive you.
01:10:17 -->
01:10:20
So he make it easier for calculation.
01:10:20 -->
01:10:23
He killed that guy to make it 100.
01:10:24 -->
01:10:25
Easy to remember.
01:10:26 -->
01:10:28
But he never give up.
01:10:28 -->
01:10:30
He went to another scholar and seek his
01:10:30 -->
01:10:31
advice.
01:10:31 -->
01:10:33
I want to repent, but this is the
01:10:33 -->
01:10:34
sin I've committed.
01:10:35 -->
01:10:36
Do you think Allah will forgive me?
01:10:37 -->
01:10:39
What stop Allah to forgive you?
01:10:39 -->
01:10:42
Nobody can stop Allah to forgive you.
01:10:43 -->
01:10:44
It's his mercy.
01:10:45 -->
01:10:47
If you really repent, Allah is sure to
01:10:47 -->
01:10:47
forgive you.
01:10:48 -->
01:10:51
Even you commit shirk, but now you want
01:10:51 -->
01:10:51
to stop committing.
01:10:52 -->
01:10:52
I want to repent.
01:10:53 -->
01:10:53
No more shirk.
01:10:53 -->
01:10:54
Allah forgive you.
01:10:58 -->
01:10:59
But we condition.
01:11:00 -->
01:11:02
You must migrate.
01:11:04 -->
01:11:05
Leave your home now.
01:11:06 -->
01:11:06
Go back.
01:11:07 -->
01:11:08
Get yourself prepared.
01:11:08 -->
01:11:09
Shift yourself.
01:11:09 -->
01:11:11
Migrate to another new area.
01:11:12 -->
01:11:14
This is bad area for you.
01:11:14 -->
01:11:15
Everybody know that you are a killer.
01:11:16 -->
01:11:17
You better mind.
01:11:17 -->
01:11:21
He went back sincerely prepared and on his
01:11:21 -->
01:11:24
way to migrate to another area.
01:11:25 -->
01:11:27
On the way, angel of death was waiting
01:11:27 -->
01:11:28
for him.
01:11:29 -->
01:11:30
Pull his line.
01:11:31 -->
01:11:32
His soul was done.
01:11:33 -->
01:11:36
Angel of Jahannam came down.
01:11:36 -->
01:11:37
He belong to me.
01:11:38 -->
01:11:39
Angel of Paradise came down.
01:11:39 -->
01:11:40
No, he is mine.
01:11:41 -->
01:11:44
Allah sent another angel to be the judge.
01:11:46 -->
01:11:49
In the conclusion, Allah have forgive him because
01:11:49 -->
01:11:50
he have repent.
01:11:52 -->
01:11:55
Sincerely, he have repented and he is moving
01:11:55 -->
01:11:56
now.
01:11:56 -->
01:11:59
You see, he went home prepared and he
01:11:59 -->
01:12:02
was leaving the old area to the new
01:12:02 -->
01:12:02
area.
01:12:04 -->
01:12:09
So whoever sincerely repent to Allah, Allah's mercy
01:12:09 -->
01:12:10
is always there.
01:12:12 -->
01:12:16
So we hope we don't use this kind
01:12:16 -->
01:12:16
of turn.
01:12:16 -->
01:12:17
Allah will not forgive you.
01:12:17 -->
01:12:21
Don't use that because Allah say, I will
01:12:21 -->
01:12:22
forgive.
01:12:23 -->
01:12:26
There is a saying that I always use
01:12:26 -->
01:12:27
lately.
01:12:28 -->
01:12:31
Allah give and keep on giving and he
01:12:31 -->
01:12:32
keep on forgiving.
01:12:33 -->
01:12:34
There is Allah.
01:12:36 -->
01:12:37
Never give up hope.
01:12:41 -->
01:12:46
Who are the people as human who always
01:12:46 -->
01:12:48
like to give and forgive?
01:12:51 -->
01:12:53
Allah is clear.
01:12:53 -->
01:12:54
We have no doubt.
01:12:54 -->
01:12:58
Who among human who like to give and
01:12:58 -->
01:12:58
forgive?
01:13:00 -->
01:13:00
Who?
01:13:05 -->
01:13:12
It's our parents, our mama, our daddy.
01:13:13 -->
01:13:15
You have hurt them so much.
01:13:16 -->
01:13:20
You have been so disobedient, but deep in
01:13:20 -->
01:13:23
their heart, they always pray for you and
01:13:23 -->
01:13:24
forgive you.
01:13:27 -->
01:13:29
We hope that we will get that kind
01:13:29 -->
01:13:29
of children.
01:13:31 -->
01:13:34
As you grow, you have your children.
01:13:35 -->
01:13:38
We hope that Allah give us that kind
01:13:38 -->
01:13:38
of children.
01:13:40 -->
01:13:44
Now, to get that kind of children, we
01:13:44 -->
01:13:47
must set good example that Allah will give
01:13:47 -->
01:13:50
us that kind of children, will always love
01:13:50 -->
01:13:50
us.
01:13:51 -->
01:13:54
We make some mistake, they forgive us and
01:13:54 -->
01:13:55
move forward.
01:13:56 -->
01:13:58
And then may Allah bless our children with
01:13:58 -->
01:14:04
our grandchildren who also have this spirit of
01:14:04 -->
01:14:09
love, mercy, who like to give and forgive.
01:14:11 -->
01:14:13
Will we have a good ending when we
01:14:13 -->
01:14:16
have all these kind of family members?
01:14:17 -->
01:14:18
How do you feel?
01:14:19 -->
01:14:20
Are you happy?
01:14:21 -->
01:14:23
Are we happy brothers?
01:14:24 -->
01:14:26
No expression from brother.
01:14:27 -->
01:14:28
Are you happy sisters?
01:14:31 -->
01:14:31
Yeah.
01:14:31 -->
01:14:33
We should be very happy.
01:14:34 -->
01:14:36
There is what we want.
01:14:37 -->
01:14:41
Nothing is more valuable than that, happiness.
01:14:43 -->
01:14:44
Yeah.
01:14:44 -->
01:14:49
So we can develop that happy environment, starting
01:14:49 -->
01:14:51
from we set good example.
01:14:52 -->
01:14:53
Yeah.
01:14:53 -->
01:14:55
Don't be judgmental.
01:14:55 -->
01:14:57
Don't be too hard.
01:14:57 -->
01:14:58
Keep on praying.
01:14:58 -->
01:15:01
When there's a sign of changing, be very
01:15:01 -->
01:15:02
happy.
01:15:03 -->
01:15:04
Give all the support they need.
01:15:06 -->
01:15:07
Don't hold.
01:15:08 -->
01:15:10
Don't follow your anger.
01:15:11 -->
01:15:17
Nobody has anger, but always look at the
01:15:17 -->
01:15:18
positive side.
01:15:19 -->
01:15:22
Your parents have given you so much.
01:15:22 -->
01:15:24
Never ever compare.
01:15:24 -->
01:15:26
You cannot compare.
01:15:28 -->
01:15:30
They have invested in us.
01:15:30 -->
01:15:31
Only Allah knows.
01:15:33 -->
01:15:36
Alhamdulillah, no parents send a bill to their
01:15:36 -->
01:15:36
children.
01:15:37 -->
01:15:40
My son, you are working now.
01:15:41 -->
01:15:44
My daughter, you are big now.
01:15:45 -->
01:15:47
You are a professional career woman.
01:15:49 -->
01:15:50
Payback time.
01:15:51 -->
01:15:56
I pay your bill, your school bill, your
01:15:56 -->
01:16:01
uniform, your medical bill.
01:16:02 -->
01:16:02
I calculate.
01:16:03 -->
01:16:04
I give you a special discount.
01:16:07 -->
01:16:09
Yeah, food and everything.
01:16:10 -->
01:16:14
Everything I give you now, payback time 60
01:16:14 -->
01:16:15
percent.
01:16:18 -->
01:16:19
Very kind.
01:16:23 -->
01:16:24
No mother do that.
01:16:26 -->
01:16:27
No father do that.
01:16:27 -->
01:16:29
I've done my best.
01:16:30 -->
01:16:33
They just hope that you'll be happy.
01:16:35 -->
01:16:36
This is family.
01:16:37 -->
01:16:39
Good family always want to make sure their
01:16:39 -->
01:16:40
children are happy.
01:16:42 -->
01:16:46
Yeah, safe, healthy.
01:16:47 -->
01:16:49
They don't like to burden us.
01:16:51 -->
01:16:55
Never, never feel that serving your parents is
01:16:55 -->
01:16:56
a burden.
01:16:57 -->
01:16:57
Don't do that.
01:16:59 -->
01:17:00
It's a gift from Allah.
01:17:02 -->
01:17:04
It's a great opportunity.
01:17:06 -->
01:17:12
Don't just entertain a stranger and abandon your
01:17:12 -->
01:17:13
family.
01:17:13 -->
01:17:14
Who are the stranger?
01:17:16 -->
01:17:18
Your partner is a stranger.
01:17:19 -->
01:17:20
They are not in it.
01:17:20 -->
01:17:24
If he is a family, yeah, close related,
01:17:24 -->
01:17:25
maybe you cannot get married.
01:17:27 -->
01:17:29
You must love the stranger and love the
01:17:29 -->
01:17:32
stranger, a stranger who love your family.
01:17:34 -->
01:17:37
A good stranger, a good husband, a good
01:17:37 -->
01:17:38
wife is like that.
01:17:40 -->
01:17:44
If he or she know that any of
01:17:44 -->
01:17:46
them who are not close to their parent,
01:17:47 -->
01:17:50
like a wife who know that her husband
01:17:50 -->
01:17:53
is not close to his parent, it is
01:17:53 -->
01:17:59
her duty to make sure that the husband
01:17:59 -->
01:18:02
is closer by she getting closer to the
01:18:02 -->
01:18:03
parent-in-law.
01:18:04 -->
01:18:07
And she, I like to go and visit
01:18:07 -->
01:18:07
papa and mama.
01:18:08 -->
01:18:09
I'm cooking something.
01:18:09 -->
01:18:10
I understand.
01:18:10 -->
01:18:11
Let us go together.
01:18:11 -->
01:18:13
She must take the initiative.
01:18:21 -->
01:18:23
Help one another.
01:18:24 -->
01:18:25
He is weak.
01:18:25 -->
01:18:26
He is too stubborn.
01:18:27 -->
01:18:29
You cannot be like him.
01:18:30 -->
01:18:35
A good husband also have the same responsibility.
01:18:35 -->
01:18:36
If you want to know your good husband,
01:18:38 -->
01:18:40
your wife are not close to her family.
01:18:42 -->
01:18:43
Maybe they have some problem.
01:18:44 -->
01:18:45
Your problem is problem.
01:18:46 -->
01:18:50
It's your duty as a good husband to
01:18:50 -->
01:18:55
get close to the in-law and bring
01:18:55 -->
01:18:58
her back, not bring her further.
01:18:59 -->
01:19:00
Not good.
01:19:00 -->
01:19:04
Because she have a responsibility.
01:19:06 -->
01:19:09
At least not to hurt the parents.
01:19:10 -->
01:19:11
Don't ignore them.
01:19:14 -->
01:19:16
And you may have your children now and
01:19:16 -->
01:19:19
parents always love grandchildren.
01:19:22 -->
01:19:28
Don't be, or don't create zulm.
01:19:29 -->
01:19:32
Oppress the right of the grandchildren to the
01:19:32 -->
01:19:32
grandparent.
01:19:34 -->
01:19:38
And never stop the grandparent to be close
01:19:38 -->
01:19:39
to the grandchildren.
01:19:41 -->
01:19:41
Don't do that.
01:19:44 -->
01:19:46
Your personal problem, that is your problem.
01:19:46 -->
01:19:47
Hold it, solve it.
01:19:48 -->
01:19:49
Ask Allah to do that.
01:19:49 -->
01:19:50
To help you.
01:19:50 -->
01:19:55
Don't be hard because you don't get anything
01:19:55 -->
01:19:58
good in return by doing that.
01:19:59 -->
01:20:00
Be merciful, be kind.
01:20:03 -->
01:20:06
Then you'll see Allah's mercy will be there
01:20:06 -->
01:20:07
for you too.
01:20:09 -->
01:20:13
Because if you try to stop them from
01:20:13 -->
01:20:17
getting that kind of love from the family,
01:20:17 -->
01:20:21
from their grandparents, one day when they grow
01:20:21 -->
01:20:26
up, if Allah's mercy is always in them,
01:20:26 -->
01:20:29
they have good heart, they are starting to
01:20:29 -->
01:20:30
hate you more now.
01:20:33 -->
01:20:35
I don't think you like that to happen
01:20:35 -->
01:20:35
to you.
01:20:37 -->
01:20:43
Because you show bad example to your parents.
01:20:45 -->
01:20:48
And the effect is the children, your imaging
01:20:48 -->
01:20:51
can show bad, worse than that to you.
01:20:52 -->
01:20:54
Like how you show to your parents, they
01:20:54 -->
01:20:56
will show this to you.
01:20:56 -->
01:20:58
Why must you let this happen?
01:20:59 -->
01:21:01
Why must you go through all this suffering?
01:21:03 -->
01:21:04
Why not let us?
01:21:05 -->
01:21:09
Like what I always say, we give, we
01:21:09 -->
01:21:10
forgive.
01:21:11 -->
01:21:15
But human is always so negative.
01:21:16 -->
01:21:17
They get, they forget.
01:21:19 -->
01:21:21
They get all the good things from their
01:21:21 -->
01:21:23
parents, they keep on forgetting.
01:21:25 -->
01:21:28
Don't ever entertain the negative force.
01:21:29 -->
01:21:34
Let us work together and let us understand
01:21:34 -->
01:21:38
the pain they have gone through, the suffering
01:21:38 -->
01:21:40
they have gone through, the hardship they have
01:21:40 -->
01:21:41
gone through.
01:21:41 -->
01:21:43
Like what Allah said when I was starting
01:21:43 -->
01:21:47
from the beginning to revisit the last week,
01:21:48 -->
01:21:52
yeah, ayah that Allah want us to be
01:21:52 -->
01:21:55
kind to them because they have gone through
01:21:55 -->
01:21:59
a lot of hardship upon hardship just to
01:21:59 -->
01:22:03
deliver us and then to breastfeed us.
01:22:04 -->
01:22:07
Don't think, oh mother is the one who
01:22:07 -->
01:22:09
breastfeed, but who take care of mother?
01:22:09 -->
01:22:10
Not you, it's the father.
01:22:13 -->
01:22:15
It's the father who take care.
01:22:16 -->
01:22:20
So you cannot abandon the father.
01:22:21 -->
01:22:26
Both your parents, you must honor, respect, be
01:22:26 -->
01:22:28
kind, be merciful to them.
01:22:29 -->
01:22:31
Like how they have shown mercy to you
01:22:31 -->
01:22:32
when you are a baby.
01:22:34 -->
01:22:37
May Allah help all of us to be
01:22:37 -->
01:22:44
righteous children and to just forget whatever experience
01:22:44 -->
01:22:48
we have and look into the positive side
01:22:48 -->
01:22:53
to get Allah's blessing so that we all
01:22:53 -->
01:22:56
will enter paradise, you know.
01:22:59 -->
01:23:00
Ameen, Inshallah.
01:23:00 -->
01:23:02
If there's any question, now we open for
01:23:02 -->
01:23:03
Q&A.
01:23:03 -->
01:23:12
Any question from the floor?
01:23:15 -->
01:23:15
Assalamu alaikum.
01:23:16 -->
01:23:18
Wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh.
01:23:18 -->
01:23:20
You mentioned the hadith of the woman who
01:23:20 -->
01:23:21
fell pregnant through zina.
01:23:22 -->
01:23:24
As far as I know, there are two
01:23:24 -->
01:23:26
narrations that speak of this and two different
01:23:26 -->
01:23:27
women as well.
01:23:27 -->
01:23:30
But in neither of those narrations, does it
01:23:30 -->
01:23:31
mention the husband?
01:23:32 -->
01:23:32
Yeah.
01:23:32 -->
01:23:32
Why?
01:23:33 -->
01:23:36
Yeah, because if you repent, you commit a
01:23:36 -->
01:23:37
sin, you come forward.
01:23:37 -->
01:23:40
The Prophet never want to ask about that.
01:23:41 -->
01:23:44
I understand that, but I'm talking about the
01:23:44 -->
01:23:46
husband of the woman who committed the not
01:23:46 -->
01:23:48
the man that she committed the zina with,
01:23:48 -->
01:23:49
but the husband.
01:23:49 -->
01:23:51
There's no mention of the husband at all.
01:23:51 -->
01:23:52
So the woman's going to be executed, but
01:23:52 -->
01:23:55
there's no mention of how the husband feels
01:23:55 -->
01:23:55
or how the...
01:23:55 -->
01:23:59
Yeah, there are two things because either the
01:23:59 -->
01:24:03
man, you see, the relationship between husband and
01:24:03 -->
01:24:05
wife at that time is very different.
01:24:08 -->
01:24:12
Either the man just leave it or the
01:24:12 -->
01:24:13
man have no knowledge.
01:24:16 -->
01:24:17
So the woman is not going to tell
01:24:17 -->
01:24:20
the husband, but he just go to the
01:24:20 -->
01:24:22
Prophet and told the Prophet.
01:24:23 -->
01:24:26
Neither the Prophet want to go if you're...
01:24:26 -->
01:24:26
Where's your husband?
01:24:27 -->
01:24:28
Neither the Prophet want to do that.
01:24:30 -->
01:24:33
But if you look, maybe the husband also
01:24:33 -->
01:24:34
have abandoned.
01:24:35 -->
01:24:36
Some men is like that.
01:24:37 -->
01:24:39
They don't divorce the wife, but they just
01:24:39 -->
01:24:40
abandoned them.
01:24:41 -->
01:24:43
And that's why the Ansar, if you look
01:24:43 -->
01:24:47
at how the Hadith, the Ansar offer to
01:24:47 -->
01:24:50
get somebody take care of the woman.
01:24:52 -->
01:24:54
But good, the community at that time, they
01:24:54 -->
01:24:55
are very positive.
01:24:57 -->
01:24:59
If the men fail to do what they
01:24:59 -->
01:25:01
have to do, that's between you and Allah.
01:25:03 -->
01:25:06
But whatever the community can help, they will
01:25:06 -->
01:25:08
offer the helping hand.
01:25:09 -->
01:25:12
But it's good thing that Brother Mujahid asking,
01:25:13 -->
01:25:16
neither the man, the husband name is been
01:25:16 -->
01:25:16
mentioned.
01:25:16 -->
01:25:19
Even the woman sometimes, the name is not
01:25:19 -->
01:25:22
been mentioned, just a woman.
01:25:24 -->
01:25:24
Why?
01:25:24 -->
01:25:26
Because it's not good.
01:25:28 -->
01:25:29
There's a woman, kalas.
01:25:30 -->
01:25:34
We don't want to make people know who
01:25:34 -->
01:25:37
is that woman, unless those who are involved
01:25:37 -->
01:25:40
directly to help her, of course, they know.
01:25:42 -->
01:25:44
But nobody talk about it anymore.
01:25:44 -->
01:25:47
That's how positive the Ummah was before.
01:25:48 -->
01:25:51
We try the best to do what that
01:25:51 -->
01:25:54
Allah and the Prophet want them to do.
01:25:54 -->
01:25:55
No more.
01:25:57 -->
01:25:58
And they keep it.
01:25:58 -->
01:26:00
That's why the Prophet in other general Hadith
01:26:00 -->
01:26:05
said, if you are exposed to the sin
01:26:05 -->
01:26:07
of another person, they don't want to do
01:26:07 -->
01:26:08
it openly.
01:26:09 -->
01:26:11
They do it that suddenly it happened that
01:26:11 -->
01:26:12
you saw.
01:26:15 -->
01:26:16
Don't expose it.
01:26:17 -->
01:26:22
Allah ordained that you see, but don't expose
01:26:22 -->
01:26:23
that.
01:26:23 -->
01:26:25
Kalas, man satara musliman.
01:26:26 -->
01:26:26
Why?
01:26:26 -->
01:26:30
The reward is I will cover your own
01:26:30 -->
01:26:32
weaknesses and your sin.
01:26:33 -->
01:26:35
But if you like to go and expose,
01:26:35 -->
01:26:38
how do you feel if Allah expose your
01:26:38 -->
01:26:42
mistake, your weaknesses to the public?
01:26:43 -->
01:26:46
And when you expose that, Allah expose you
01:26:46 -->
01:26:48
here and the hereafter.
01:26:50 -->
01:26:51
In the hereafter, there is a big screen.
01:26:53 -->
01:26:55
May Allah is going to show who you
01:26:55 -->
01:26:57
are to everybody.
01:26:58 -->
01:26:59
Do you like that to happen?
01:27:00 -->
01:27:00
No.
01:27:02 -->
01:27:04
That's why Islam, the Islamic value is so
01:27:04 -->
01:27:05
unique.
01:27:05 -->
01:27:08
You know it's the mistake and he or
01:27:08 -->
01:27:10
she is trying to cover it from the
01:27:10 -->
01:27:10
public.
01:27:11 -->
01:27:12
Don't ever say.
01:27:13 -->
01:27:15
Just pray for them.
01:27:16 -->
01:27:17
Be very positive.
01:27:18 -->
01:27:20
It's not easy, I know.
01:27:21 -->
01:27:23
It's a challenge for everybody.
01:27:24 -->
01:27:24
We have feeling.
01:27:25 -->
01:27:27
We have emotion.
01:27:28 -->
01:27:31
Of course, sometimes we just grab the opportunity.
01:27:31 -->
01:27:32
Ah, time.
01:27:33 -->
01:27:35
This is the right time for me to
01:27:35 -->
01:27:35
strike.
01:27:36 -->
01:27:38
No, no, no, hold on.
01:27:40 -->
01:27:40
Why?
01:27:41 -->
01:27:43
We may be tested one day.
01:27:44 -->
01:27:49
And then we are so worried people know
01:27:49 -->
01:27:49
our mistake.
01:27:49 -->
01:27:51
And Alhamdulillah, somebody knew.
01:27:51 -->
01:27:55
But he never or she never exposed you.
01:27:55 -->
01:27:56
How do you feel?
01:27:57 -->
01:27:57
You feel good?
01:27:59 -->
01:28:00
We are sure we feel good.
01:28:02 -->
01:28:05
Yeah, so the whole history about what happened
01:28:05 -->
01:28:08
to the Prophet, about the people who have
01:28:08 -->
01:28:12
done so many wrong things, who came to
01:28:12 -->
01:28:13
the Prophet directly.
01:28:13 -->
01:28:16
The Prophet never even want to mention their
01:28:16 -->
01:28:21
name or ask their partner.
01:28:21 -->
01:28:24
No, you finish.
01:28:25 -->
01:28:26
Allahu Akbar.
01:28:28 -->
01:28:30
Because sometimes human is human.
01:28:32 -->
01:28:34
Allah can forgive us everything.
01:28:35 -->
01:28:38
But human are very judgmental.
01:28:39 -->
01:28:42
And sometimes he will expose you or you
01:28:42 -->
01:28:43
can expose him.
01:28:44 -->
01:28:44
Why you do that?
01:28:47 -->
01:28:49
If you uncover, you cover.
01:28:51 -->
01:28:54
One last thing I like to say children,
01:28:55 -->
01:28:58
do our children do a lot of mistakes
01:28:58 -->
01:28:59
sometimes?
01:29:02 -->
01:29:05
Yeah, do our children sometimes have bad habit?
01:29:07 -->
01:29:08
What is the habit?
01:29:09 -->
01:29:10
What are the bad habit?
01:29:12 -->
01:29:15
They like to take thing without permission.
01:29:17 -->
01:29:18
I don't use the other word.
01:29:19 -->
01:29:22
They like to take thing because you are
01:29:22 -->
01:29:23
not careful.
01:29:23 -->
01:29:24
You leave everything here and there.
01:29:26 -->
01:29:28
So to them, it's risky.
01:29:32 -->
01:29:35
You must make sure you don't put everything
01:29:35 -->
01:29:36
everywhere.
01:29:37 -->
01:29:39
You have some changes in your money.
01:29:39 -->
01:29:40
Don't just put anywhere.
01:29:41 -->
01:29:43
They thought that you are so kind, you
01:29:43 -->
01:29:44
put everything there just for them.
01:29:46 -->
01:29:50
But sometimes they will take without permission.
01:29:51 -->
01:29:54
And you know, are you going to the
01:29:54 -->
01:29:59
family's gathering and inform them, be careful of
01:29:59 -->
01:30:01
my son, you know, take care of your
01:30:01 -->
01:30:04
things, take care of your wallet, take care
01:30:04 -->
01:30:05
of your bag.
01:30:06 -->
01:30:07
Are you going to do that?
01:30:10 -->
01:30:12
How do you feel if you do that?
01:30:14 -->
01:30:15
Why?
01:30:15 -->
01:30:18
Because my son is...
01:30:19 -->
01:30:21
So you don't blame me.
01:30:21 -->
01:30:25
Don't blame me if something is missing today.
01:30:25 -->
01:30:26
Don't blame me.
01:30:26 -->
01:30:27
I have warned you.
01:30:27 -->
01:30:30
My son is known for taking thing without
01:30:30 -->
01:30:31
permission.
01:30:33 -->
01:30:34
How do you feel?
01:30:35 -->
01:30:36
Will your son be happy?
01:30:38 -->
01:30:40
He will hate your...
01:30:40 -->
01:30:42
Next time you want to call him, let's
01:30:42 -->
01:30:43
go for a walk, for the family gathering.
01:30:44 -->
01:30:46
No, Papa, I'm busy.
01:30:46 -->
01:30:47
I want to do homework.
01:30:49 -->
01:30:51
What is the homework?
01:30:53 -->
01:30:56
They just want to be home alone.
01:30:57 -->
01:30:57
They are shy.
01:30:58 -->
01:31:00
Don't expose their weakness.
01:31:03 -->
01:31:07
Don't say, my daughter, she is a very
01:31:07 -->
01:31:08
lazy girl.
01:31:09 -->
01:31:13
She doesn't even clean her room.
01:31:13 -->
01:31:15
Why are you going to do that?
01:31:15 -->
01:31:17
She may change one day.
01:31:19 -->
01:31:20
If people say, how is your daughter?
01:31:21 -->
01:31:21
Alhamdulillah.
01:31:23 -->
01:31:25
Even you know they have a lot of
01:31:25 -->
01:31:25
weakness.
01:31:27 -->
01:31:30
We are helping her and she's improving.
01:31:30 -->
01:31:31
She's getting better.
01:31:32 -->
01:31:33
Be positive.
01:31:35 -->
01:31:37
Very important to know how to...
01:31:38 -->
01:31:38
Yeah.
01:31:39 -->
01:31:41
Communicate with others.
01:31:42 -->
01:31:44
How to protect our children.
01:31:46 -->
01:31:46
Yeah.
01:31:47 -->
01:31:48
And make them a better children.
01:31:49 -->
01:31:49
Fada.
01:31:49 -->
01:31:50
Any question?
01:31:51 -->
01:31:51
Fada.
01:31:53 -->
01:31:54
Mic, please, now.
01:31:55 -->
01:31:57
Send back to the sister there.
01:32:01 -->
01:32:03
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
01:32:03 -->
01:32:06
I have two questions.
01:32:06 -->
01:32:09
First, also, I want to further understand the
01:32:09 -->
01:32:10
case that involved...
01:32:10 -->
01:32:11
There's some sound problem.
01:32:12 -->
01:32:12
Yeah, okay.
01:32:12 -->
01:32:15
First, I also want to further understand the
01:32:15 -->
01:32:19
case that involved that woman who committed adultery.
01:32:21 -->
01:32:26
So, first, she came to the Prophet, salallahu
01:32:26 -->
01:32:26
alayhi wa sallam.
01:32:27 -->
01:32:29
But the Prophet wanted to dismiss her.
01:32:30 -->
01:32:30
No.
01:32:31 -->
01:32:34
So, and it's her who insists on getting
01:32:34 -->
01:32:35
punished.
01:32:36 -->
01:32:39
So, I just want to understand if we
01:32:39 -->
01:32:40
commit something and we go to the judge.
01:32:42 -->
01:32:44
And the judge was just out of mercy.
01:32:44 -->
01:32:46
He wanted to dismiss us.
01:32:46 -->
01:32:49
Wouldn't be also this one form of injustice?
01:32:54 -->
01:32:54
Just...
01:32:54 -->
01:32:57
I mean, she committed this thing, but our
01:32:57 -->
01:32:59
Prophet want to dismiss her.
01:32:59 -->
01:32:59
Okay.
01:33:01 -->
01:33:02
It is...
01:33:02 -->
01:33:05
But it is Allah's right to punish her.
01:33:06 -->
01:33:08
And our Prophet want to dismiss her.
01:33:08 -->
01:33:09
So, is this right?
01:33:10 -->
01:33:13
Oh, yeah, because sometimes we do not know
01:33:13 -->
01:33:14
the people who come to you.
01:33:16 -->
01:33:20
Their situation, their status, their mindset at that
01:33:20 -->
01:33:20
time.
01:33:21 -->
01:33:24
People can create story sometimes.
01:33:25 -->
01:33:26
People don't want to live anymore.
01:33:26 -->
01:33:27
They want to die.
01:33:29 -->
01:33:32
You know, so they want you to terminate
01:33:32 -->
01:33:32
their life.
01:33:34 -->
01:33:35
They can come in that manner.
01:33:37 -->
01:33:38
Enough is enough.
01:33:38 -->
01:33:39
I don't want to live anymore.
01:33:40 -->
01:33:41
So, I just create a story.
01:33:42 -->
01:33:43
Can that happen?
01:33:44 -->
01:33:45
Yeah, that can happen too.
01:33:46 -->
01:33:49
Because normal people will not do that.
01:33:50 -->
01:33:52
A normal person, if you commit a sin
01:33:52 -->
01:33:56
secretly, you just stop and move forward.
01:33:58 -->
01:34:00
Because nobody is perfect.
01:34:02 -->
01:34:05
But if people who are so honest, sometimes
01:34:05 -->
01:34:06
we are worried.
01:34:09 -->
01:34:10
Are you okay?
01:34:12 -->
01:34:14
Your state of mind stable?
01:34:17 -->
01:34:19
It's not easy to judge a person.
01:34:20 -->
01:34:25
So, we always try to make it positive,
01:34:25 -->
01:34:25
go back.
01:34:26 -->
01:34:28
I don't want to know.
01:34:28 -->
01:34:29
Because no one knows.
01:34:29 -->
01:34:31
Unless somebody complain.
01:34:32 -->
01:34:34
There's a difference when somebody complain.
01:34:34 -->
01:34:37
If said the husband will bring this matter
01:34:37 -->
01:34:38
to the prophet.
01:34:39 -->
01:34:41
My wife have done this, this, this, this.
01:34:42 -->
01:34:42
What will happen?
01:34:43 -->
01:34:44
Do you think the prophet will just accept?
01:34:46 -->
01:34:48
Okay, you bring the wife.
01:34:49 -->
01:34:51
The wife can deny.
01:34:53 -->
01:34:55
Then the prophet have give a warning.
01:34:55 -->
01:34:57
Any man who say this to the woman,
01:34:57 -->
01:34:58
you remember.
01:34:59 -->
01:35:01
You automatically can be divorced.
01:35:02 -->
01:35:04
No more staying with this woman.
01:35:05 -->
01:35:08
And you must bring four witnesses.
01:35:10 -->
01:35:15
Four righteous men known to the public to
01:35:15 -->
01:35:21
bear witness that I saw the wife of
01:35:21 -->
01:35:23
so-and-so commit zina.
01:35:24 -->
01:35:27
Not just I saw them go into the
01:35:27 -->
01:35:27
room and lock.
01:35:29 -->
01:35:30
Yes, they're in the room.
01:35:31 -->
01:35:32
What's that?
01:35:32 -->
01:35:33
Have you seen?
01:35:34 -->
01:35:36
It's not easy.
01:35:36 -->
01:35:38
Islamic law is not just hearsay.
01:35:41 -->
01:35:44
And then if you said, I don't know
01:35:44 -->
01:35:46
what happened inside, of course.
01:35:46 -->
01:35:47
I only saw them checking.
01:35:48 -->
01:35:50
Okay, so you don't see.
01:35:51 -->
01:35:53
There is no eyewitness to see that the
01:35:53 -->
01:35:55
action is been done.
01:35:55 -->
01:35:59
But now you confirm that they are doing
01:35:59 -->
01:35:59
it.
01:35:59 -->
01:36:01
Can you swear with the name of Allah?
01:36:03 -->
01:36:05
Four witnesses must swear.
01:36:05 -->
01:36:09
If I lie, may Allah curse be upon
01:36:09 -->
01:36:12
me and also to my family.
01:36:12 -->
01:36:13
Can you imagine?
01:36:13 -->
01:36:19
It's because passing judgment, verdict to a person
01:36:19 -->
01:36:20
is not a small matter.
01:36:23 -->
01:36:30
Now, if the man feels so confident, yes,
01:36:30 -->
01:36:32
I know, he's committing.
01:36:32 -->
01:36:34
Wallahi, okay, four.
01:36:35 -->
01:36:39
Then the wife will be summoned.
01:36:39 -->
01:36:42
Now, what do you say about that?
01:36:43 -->
01:36:44
They are liar.
01:36:46 -->
01:36:48
I don't do this.
01:36:49 -->
01:36:50
I have my problem.
01:36:50 -->
01:36:52
I went in, but I never commit anything.
01:36:53 -->
01:36:55
How can you defend yourself?
01:36:57 -->
01:37:02
To show us to punish a person is
01:37:02 -->
01:37:03
a person.
01:37:03 -->
01:37:06
Islamically, it's not just.
01:37:07 -->
01:37:08
I can do this.
01:37:09 -->
01:37:09
I can do pressure.
01:37:10 -->
01:37:10
No, no, no.
01:37:11 -->
01:37:12
It's very, very.
01:37:12 -->
01:37:14
That's why the Prophet said three judges to
01:37:14 -->
01:37:15
go to *.
01:37:17 -->
01:37:19
Do you judge them according to the judgment
01:37:19 -->
01:37:20
of Allah?
01:37:21 -->
01:37:24
Or based on what you want?
01:37:24 -->
01:37:27
Based on the pressure given to you?
01:37:29 -->
01:37:30
You understand that?
01:37:31 -->
01:37:36
Even we have no witnesses, but you can
01:37:36 -->
01:37:39
bear witness by yourself by swearing four times.
01:37:41 -->
01:37:44
And the four witnesses must be male.
01:37:45 -->
01:37:49
And their eyesight must be good.
01:37:51 -->
01:37:52
No?
01:37:53 -->
01:37:55
So first thing will happen to our time.
01:37:57 -->
01:38:01
Send this four person have an eye.
01:38:02 -->
01:38:04
Yeah, the vision check up.
01:38:05 -->
01:38:07
How far is the distance?
01:38:07 -->
01:38:10
Okay, now you check their eyesight.
01:38:11 -->
01:38:15
If one person, one eye have some problem,
01:38:16 -->
01:38:17
he cannot be the witness.
01:38:19 -->
01:38:23
It's very fine, very, very careful in Islam.
01:38:24 -->
01:38:27
But if a person admit there is a
01:38:27 -->
01:38:31
different case, this, if you want to just
01:38:31 -->
01:38:32
that person.
01:38:33 -->
01:38:39
You must have a lot of thing prepared.
01:38:41 -->
01:38:43
You got it?
01:38:43 -->
01:38:43
Yeah.
01:38:44 -->
01:38:45
She has a question.
01:38:46 -->
01:38:49
You mentioned there are three death punishments in
01:38:49 -->
01:38:49
Islam.
01:38:49 -->
01:38:51
First one is killing a life, life for
01:38:51 -->
01:38:52
life.
01:38:52 -->
01:38:57
But we can consult that person's family next
01:38:57 -->
01:38:57
of kin.
01:38:58 -->
01:38:59
I want to ask the next of kin,
01:39:00 -->
01:39:03
does it have to be father and mother
01:39:03 -->
01:39:06
or also can consult the spouse?
01:39:08 -->
01:39:08
Can be what?
01:39:09 -->
01:39:12
The next of kin strictly means father and
01:39:12 -->
01:39:12
mother.
01:39:13 -->
01:39:16
Or how about the spouse is the right,
01:39:16 -->
01:39:19
the right of that person's husband or wife?
01:39:22 -->
01:39:23
I don't get your question.
01:39:23 -->
01:39:24
Sorry, I refuse.
01:39:25 -->
01:39:26
I mean.
01:39:27 -->
01:39:29
When a person kill somebody.
01:39:30 -->
01:39:30
Yes.
01:39:30 -->
01:39:36
And then the law catch the killer.
01:39:37 -->
01:39:40
Confirm he is the killer.
01:39:40 -->
01:39:44
Now the Islamic law do not allow anybody
01:39:44 -->
01:39:48
to pass any verdict without going back to
01:39:48 -->
01:39:49
the family.
01:39:49 -->
01:39:49
Yes.
01:39:50 -->
01:39:53
I want to ask that that person's family,
01:39:53 -->
01:39:58
we should consult that that person's mother, father,
01:39:58 -->
01:39:59
this kind of his own family.
01:40:00 -->
01:40:03
Or we would also consult that that person's
01:40:03 -->
01:40:04
husband or wife.
01:40:04 -->
01:40:07
Of course, it's their right to do that.
01:40:07 -->
01:40:10
As long as they must go back to
01:40:10 -->
01:40:10
the family.
01:40:11 -->
01:40:15
So who is the sultan normally in the
01:40:15 -->
01:40:15
family?
01:40:16 -->
01:40:17
The father, the father figure.
01:40:18 -->
01:40:22
But I think maybe that that that person's
01:40:22 -->
01:40:25
husband or wife is the closest person to
01:40:25 -->
01:40:29
that that that person's husband or wife is
01:40:29 -->
01:40:31
the closest to that that person.
01:40:32 -->
01:40:34
So we should ask his or her opinion
01:40:34 -->
01:40:35
or ask.
01:40:36 -->
01:40:38
Normally, they go to the man first.
01:40:40 -->
01:40:43
Always they go to the chief of the
01:40:43 -->
01:40:46
family, the head of the family.
01:40:46 -->
01:40:48
It's like a woman.
01:40:49 -->
01:40:52
Even how big you are, how old you
01:40:52 -->
01:40:54
are, if you've never been married, when you
01:40:54 -->
01:40:57
want to be get married, you must look
01:40:57 -->
01:40:57
for your wali.
01:40:59 -->
01:41:00
And the wali is your father.
01:41:02 -->
01:41:04
So, for example, if that that person is
01:41:04 -->
01:41:08
a male and we should consult his father's
01:41:08 -->
01:41:10
opinion, not his wife's opinion.
01:41:11 -->
01:41:13
Of course, go to the husband and a
01:41:13 -->
01:41:16
good man will get the family together.
01:41:18 -->
01:41:19
Thank you, Sri.
01:41:19 -->
01:41:22
And everybody will try to give their opinion
01:41:22 -->
01:41:25
and sharing what is the best thing to
01:41:25 -->
01:41:25
do.
01:41:26 -->
01:41:27
You got it?
01:41:28 -->
01:41:31
It's good to be collectively, because if not,
01:41:31 -->
01:41:34
then you may have some problem among yourself.
01:41:35 -->
01:41:38
Everything is that, but you refer back to
01:41:38 -->
01:41:38
them.
01:41:39 -->
01:41:41
Refer back to the family.
01:41:42 -->
01:41:44
But always consult the head of the family.
01:41:44 -->
01:41:45
Parents first.
01:41:45 -->
01:41:46
The eldest first.
01:41:46 -->
01:41:47
Okay.
01:41:48 -->
01:41:48
Okay.
01:41:49 -->
01:41:49
Now, next.
01:41:52 -->
01:41:53
Pass the mic, please.
01:41:55 -->
01:41:58
Today, there's a lot of interesting kind of
01:41:58 -->
01:42:00
discussion.
01:42:00 -->
01:42:03
It becomes a lot involved, many things now.
01:42:04 -->
01:42:04
True.
01:42:04 -->
01:42:05
Fadal, say.
01:42:05 -->
01:42:06
Assalamu'alaikum, Sri.
01:42:06 -->
01:42:08
Wassalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
01:42:08 -->
01:42:11
I want to ask about the ayat you
01:42:11 -->
01:42:14
mentioned in Qur'an about not killing children
01:42:14 -->
01:42:16
in fear of poverty.
01:42:16 -->
01:42:16
Okay.
01:42:17 -->
01:42:17
Right?
01:42:17 -->
01:42:23
There are cases like when parents neglect their
01:42:23 -->
01:42:30
children, neglect, or even harm their children, abusive
01:42:30 -->
01:42:31
parents, right?
01:42:32 -->
01:42:37
But they misuse the verse to continue on
01:42:37 -->
01:42:38
having children.
01:42:39 -->
01:42:40
Oh, I see.
01:42:40 -->
01:42:46
So, how do we prevent the ayat not
01:42:46 -->
01:42:47
to be misused?
01:42:47 -->
01:42:47
Of course.
01:42:48 -->
01:42:51
And also, about the other things that come
01:42:51 -->
01:42:55
into the upbringing of a children, not necessarily
01:42:55 -->
01:42:59
finance, but also the emotion side, the spiritual
01:42:59 -->
01:43:00
side.
01:43:00 -->
01:43:00
Yeah.
01:43:01 -->
01:43:01
Yeah.
01:43:01 -->
01:43:05
Now, first thing, that's why Islam always emphasize
01:43:05 -->
01:43:08
education on iman.
01:43:10 -->
01:43:11
You must have iman.
01:43:13 -->
01:43:16
All the prophet was sent to focus on
01:43:16 -->
01:43:17
that iman.
01:43:17 -->
01:43:19
When you have the right iman, you don't
01:43:19 -->
01:43:21
have this fear anymore.
01:43:22 -->
01:43:25
But when you don't have iman, of course,
01:43:25 -->
01:43:28
all this unnecessary feeling will come in.
01:43:30 -->
01:43:32
That's why Allah keep on guiding us, people
01:43:32 -->
01:43:33
who have iman.
01:43:33 -->
01:43:34
This is what Allah said.
01:43:35 -->
01:43:38
He provide for you, so what is the
01:43:38 -->
01:43:38
problem?
01:43:38 -->
01:43:40
You just have to do what you have
01:43:40 -->
01:43:40
to do.
01:43:41 -->
01:43:43
The risk is always there.
01:43:45 -->
01:43:48
So, you don't compare you with somebody who
01:43:48 -->
01:43:51
is higher than you, compare with people who
01:43:51 -->
01:43:52
are lower than you.
01:43:52 -->
01:43:53
They still survive.
01:43:55 -->
01:43:58
And in reality, you feel poor family.
01:43:59 -->
01:44:02
So, happen to have more children than rich
01:44:02 -->
01:44:02
family.
01:44:03 -->
01:44:05
Rich family have micro family.
01:44:06 -->
01:44:12
Worry, worry, worry until their life is so,
01:44:13 -->
01:44:17
you know, I would say that the people
01:44:17 -->
01:44:20
around there is, the number is so little.
01:44:21 -->
01:44:24
But I've seen people who will help the
01:44:24 -->
01:44:27
poor, suddenly they have four children.
01:44:28 -->
01:44:29
But they are poor.
01:44:29 -->
01:44:32
Plus bird, they also take care of bird.
01:44:33 -->
01:44:35
They have to feed the bird also.
01:44:35 -->
01:44:38
You know, then you say, do you have
01:44:38 -->
01:44:39
a family planning?
01:44:39 -->
01:44:40
Yo, yo, yo, we are having family planning.
01:44:41 -->
01:44:43
After sometime, we see that another one come
01:44:43 -->
01:44:43
up.
01:44:46 -->
01:44:47
Now, they have five children.
01:44:49 -->
01:44:51
We keep on reminding, it's good for you
01:44:51 -->
01:44:53
to plan if you can, you know, because
01:44:53 -->
01:44:56
of the environment you are living in.
01:44:57 -->
01:44:58
Yeah, we are doing that.
01:44:58 -->
01:44:59
Yeah, we have tried.
01:45:00 -->
01:45:02
After a few years, we see them, another
01:45:02 -->
01:45:02
family come.
01:45:03 -->
01:45:06
Allah grant them with a lot of risky
01:45:06 -->
01:45:07
in different form.
01:45:09 -->
01:45:12
But what I'm trying to say, when people
01:45:12 -->
01:45:15
have no Iman, that kind of worry will
01:45:15 -->
01:45:15
come.
01:45:16 -->
01:45:17
And sometimes people don't want to have children.
01:45:18 -->
01:45:19
It's not because of poverty.
01:45:21 -->
01:45:22
It's not because of poverty.
01:45:24 -->
01:45:28
They just are not ready to be a
01:45:28 -->
01:45:30
mother and a father.
01:45:30 -->
01:45:34
They want their life to be just that.
01:45:35 -->
01:45:36
Less responsibility.
01:45:38 -->
01:45:40
Because they look at the environment, those who
01:45:40 -->
01:45:42
have children start to have problem.
01:45:43 -->
01:45:44
I don't want to have problem.
01:45:45 -->
01:45:46
So better don't have children.
01:45:47 -->
01:45:49
Because of other reason, pressure.
01:45:51 -->
01:45:54
When you have Iman, the thing will be
01:45:54 -->
01:45:55
solved.
01:45:56 -->
01:45:58
You are clear about that?
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01:46:01
Now, you have abusive parent.
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01:46:03
If you have that kind of thing, then
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01:46:05
that's where the community come in.
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01:46:08
That's why you have the law.
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01:46:12
I think now you have the law, the
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01:46:14
Ministry of Women Affairs.
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01:46:16
I think they say if you can't, then
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01:46:18
they will come in.
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01:46:21
The authority will come in and protect the
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01:46:21
children.
01:46:23 -->
01:46:26
Yeah, if you can't help yourself, you need
01:46:26 -->
01:46:28
to be open and let other people to
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01:46:28
help you.
01:46:30 -->
01:46:35
There's always, that's why Allah said, Always be
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01:46:37
ready to help one another to do something
01:46:37 -->
01:46:40
that is right, so that you also be
01:46:40 -->
01:46:43
reward for bringing up the children to be
01:46:43 -->
01:46:44
a righteous children.
01:46:44 -->
01:46:45
You'll get the reward too.
01:46:47 -->
01:46:48
May Allah make it easy.
01:46:48 -->
01:46:49
You understand that?
01:46:50 -->
01:46:51
Always be open.
01:46:52 -->
01:46:54
If you need help, seek help.
01:46:55 -->
01:46:58
Yeah, helping is not just dollar and cent,
01:46:59 -->
01:46:59
moral support.
01:47:01 -->
01:47:05
Okay, let your children, if you're working, you
01:47:05 -->
01:47:07
have no money to pay a maid, you
01:47:07 -->
01:47:09
can go to a, that's why you must
01:47:09 -->
01:47:11
be kind to each other, be close to
01:47:11 -->
01:47:13
the neighbor because of that.
01:47:14 -->
01:47:16
Neighbor can help you.
01:47:18 -->
01:47:20
You got the idea now?
01:47:20 -->
01:47:21
Inshallah, may Allah bless us.
01:47:21 -->
01:47:23
There's always ways to solve problem.
01:47:24 -->
01:47:26
There's a last question from the sister here.
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01:47:28
Yeah.
01:47:31 -->
01:47:32
Thank you, Sheikh.
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01:47:34
Assalamu alaikum.
01:47:34 -->
01:47:35
Wa alaikum salam.
01:47:36 -->
01:47:38
I have a personal question, actually.
01:47:39 -->
01:47:39
Can I ask?
01:47:42 -->
01:47:45
Actually, I and my husband, both are students
01:47:45 -->
01:47:49
and we struggle financially, so we got this
01:47:49 -->
01:47:50
opportunity of writing thesis.
01:47:51 -->
01:47:55
So, for the thesis, the student is going
01:47:55 -->
01:47:58
to provide us data and all the information
01:47:58 -->
01:47:59
and we need to write it.
01:48:00 -->
01:48:02
So, we are really confused.
01:48:02 -->
01:48:04
Is it halal or haram?
01:48:04 -->
01:48:07
Does it consider as ghost writing or not?
01:48:08 -->
01:48:08
Yeah.
01:48:11 -->
01:48:13
We discuss this later on?
01:48:13 -->
01:48:14
Okay.
01:48:14 -->
01:48:18
Inshallah, we end by, because Zuhur is in,
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01:48:19
you can pray Zuhur.
01:48:20 -->
01:48:21
Subhanakallahumma bihamdi.
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01:48:24
Ashhadu an la ilaha ila anta.
01:48:24 -->
01:48:26
Astaghfiruka wa atubu ilaih.
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01:48:29
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh.
